If I was you I would find a true man women always tell me men are sex driven animals and I have to reply see its not our fault we are like that god made us that way. I think it is time you find some one who enjoys you as a person and also sexually and he can stay with mom Time to get a life and enjoy while you still can

Are you happy?? Well you need to sit him down and ask him a few questions and then find out if he is being faith ful to you and go from there

Good Luck Beannie! You deserve better!

Colonel

jujewbean,

Have you moved on? I have been away for too long. I am trying to catch up on all my contacts.

Good luck

James

Hi my name is eric my I think that he is cheating and hiding it very well.just so you know my back round my friend and there's tell me I should be a tharapst soorry cany spell that well.I think he is just to a shamed to to tell you .do a you know any man that don't like it when a female shows efection.if you are still with him have I'm git a std te test. If he want a relationship he would put forth more effort .sa much as you or more to make it work. As for the droma that can be prvented just don't feed in to it that's what he wants.he likes the attention it is what he wants .and for the most impornt thing you should do is take care of you health it seems that you are drpreed and have angziadi those thing need to be taked care about berfoe him because if you don't it will juts get wors my personal apion is to not to put more effort than he dose .or just find soone who will love you and show you afectiona and the other thing you need well if any other ? Just reply hope things work out bye

[well what ezactly are his reasons not to trust you I mean I guess if you don't trust someone then that would explain why you wouldn't want to have sex with them I know plenty of people who do that. And my boyfriend goes away for a whole week and it doesn't seem to bother him at all he tells me its "good that we get time apart" but to me it drives me crazy too. Some guys just aren't affectionate but that does seem a little odd. Maybe you should ask him what you can do to get your relationship back on track and explain to him you and not at all trying to push him to do anything guys are stubborn but that might help. Show him you care do something cute for him. Or maybe he's afraid of a serious commitment I mean 41? And still living at home.. and not showing any effection maybe he feels like you guys should be married but is avoiding it because he's afraid of a serious commitment.

Maybe he don't find u attractive anymore or he got someone else or he must have got some sort of burden on his mind.

HAY AM SORRY BECAUSE YOU LOVE HIM.



BUT THIS HE IS A GAY, for very rare men go without having sex for months.I can't imagine this ,it also does not happen in our society where things are far more different as in a western culture are.

AND GIRL KEEP ONETHING IN MIND... MAMA'S BOY ARE NOT GOOD LOVERS... for they can't devote themselves to their girls, you are simply wasting you time and emotions for him.Forget about him ,its time for a new man in your life. Far better far sexier and far statisfying. ;)

This must be a really prevalent problem. I have the same issue. My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years, the sex has dwindled down to once a month if I'm lucky. He gets mad if I try to initiate something or if I touch him... He is always too tired. The other day when we talked about it, he said that he is too lazy to have sex. This is really depressing to me. Makes me feel like its not worth his time to be intimate with me. Im not good enough or something. I don't think he is cheating, although, someone called me the other day and told me that he was. We have just had a really rough few months in our relationship. I don't know what to do... he has told me it is because he is too lazy, because I am a and he doesn't want to have sex with a and even that I treat him like I'm his mom... well whatever it is, it is only making us grow farther and farther apart. I feel really unloved.

Reasons for lack of sex may include:

He is severely depressed
He is bored; stuck in a routine
He is gay
Or he may be cheating


I wish the best of luck to you... if worse comes to worse, there is someone out there who would love to be intimate with you...

To add to my post, Im only 21 and Im not fat, granted I have gained about 30lbs in the last 3 years, but at my age there should be no problem with my sexual life. Im too young to deal with this bs.

It kind of sounds like he's gay

No need to let your love to blind your mind and fool your heart to the extend you got frastrated. Move on you will forget, so you did to the one whom you loved most and died.

Hopefully the OP has moved on as the thread is from 2006.
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