Originally Posted by
smoothy
He needs to see that doctor....if he isn't whacking off several times a day to the porn that isn't the reason for his problem. While pain MIGHT be an issue with that, I'm not sure it is. I know in my case with a lot of pain its usually an all or nothing issue. But I guess it might not be enough to kill it alltogether, but it might be enough to provide suficient distraction to make finishing difficult.
Thats might very well be the case as distraction is a very effective means to delay ejaculation for sometimes several hours of intercourse. I developed that technique myself about 30 years ago (before there were books on it or the WWW) so I know it works.
I think he might be reluctant to admit the probelem is physical and is willing to blame anything else. But a Doctor might be able to see throuh the distractions and find a root cause, and treat it if possible. Guys get really funny about performance issues....the last thing they are willing to accept is their own physical problems.
