Ask Me Help Desk - Need to ask about something guys

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Originally Posted by liz28

All because your boyfriend sucks on your breast doesn't mean milk will appear.

My fiance suck on my nipples all the time and no milk comes out of it.

Okay, now I'm confused. You are breast feeding but your fiancé does not cause you to express milk?

Isn't that unusual? Or not?

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Originally Posted by starbuck8

Carol, we would like to help you, but please get your stories straight. You mentioned being disgusted by men and their body parts, you said flat out that you were at least bi, and thought you were a lesbian. You've said you have had more than one female partner. Then you mention being pregnant, but there was no baby. You didn't know what an ectopic pregnancy was, but that the ultrasound tech told you that the baby died. Then you said you had an abortion. Then you talk about your boyfriend having weird sexual fetishes such as "knife play,"...having sex with "pregnant women,"...this lactating fantasy, etc., and that you are going to have sex with him on this camping trip you are going on.

I have read everything you have written, so don't play with us. How are you all of a sudden seeing a counselor? You weren't earlier today. Do you remember we spoke about this? You also said you didn't have your health card, and that your mother took care of those things, and you didn't know anything about it. You said you didn't know that you could see one for free, and you didn't know about coverage at all. I doubt very much that you've seen a counselor in the past few hrs. You've been on the computer talking to us most of the day! The last you told us, you were enrolled in some therapy classes. One that is in May, and one in October!

If you are not going to tell us the truth, then we are all wasting our time here. Tell us the truth, and then maybe we can talk.

No I didn't go see a counselor I looked up counselors in my area and called one to see what could be done.

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Originally Posted by Caroljj90

no i didn't go see a counselor i looked up counselors in my area and called one to see what could be done.

Sorry, but you've been "caught" again. That isn't how it works. You don't call, explain the problem at length, ask what "could be done" and get advice over the phone.

Carol, THIS:

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Originally Posted by Caroljj90

and i did go see a therapist...

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Originally Posted by Caroljj90

no i didn't go see a counselor...

Is exactly what we're talking about. Nothing you post is consistent.

Either give us the truth, or please leave the site.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Okay, now I'm confused. You are breast feeding but your fiance does not cause you to express milk?

Isn't that unusual? Or not?

I was referring to before I had a baby. If you review Carol post before mine she wrote"milk can come out of your breast if a guy sucks on them" then I wrote what I wrote. Before a baby was even thought of my fiancé used to perform this act on me but milk never came out of my brest. If he does it now then yes milk will come out due to me breastfeeding. I should have wrote "came" instead of "come" in my post.

I'm sorry but the term "nutbag" comes to mind.

You need psychological help. Your posts are inconsistent with a "normal" person.

I'm sorry I have to be the 50th person to tell you this...

Carol, I don't think you should say anything else nor try to explain yourself. Every time you write something you just dig a deeper hole for yourself and right now your at 5ft.

Just get help asap.

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Originally Posted by Xrayman

I'm sorry but the term "nutbag" comes to mind.

You need psychological help. Your posts are inconsistent with a "normal" person.

I'm sorry I have to be the 50th person to tell you this...

With all due respect, I don't think this needed to resort to name calling. Does she need to get some serious help? Oh yeah! But I don't think we want to turn it back to the days when someone with a phychological brain disorder gets called a nutbag, or many of the other names that are still commonly used.

But Carol, seriously, you need to get yourself some help not today, but yesterday. You can't even keep track of your own stories. That is what happens when you don't tell the truth. It has a snowball effect, and sooner or later that snowball runs you right over. We don't have to be geniuses to tell when someone is lying to us, and in this case it is so obvious that it couldn't hit us in the face any harder. Please go and get some help, no matter where it is you have to get it. This can only get worse without it.

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45notdaddy agrees: A- Freakin'- MEN!
JudyKayTee agrees: Substitute any other slur and it's just as offensive.

Thanks you guys! It just starts to get under my skin when phychological problems, aren't recognised because you can't physically see them, as you could as... well let's say someone who has been in an accident and has a huge gaping gash on their head. You would pay attention then right? You'd "see" the blood! But when you can't "see" it with your own eyes, many people just say "woohoo" :swirling finger around head::

Are some people just a little "off" because of their personalities? Hell you! Are some people just quirky and get their thrills out of getting a lot of attention. Many do, but there is always a reason for that kind of behaviour also. But when it gets to a certain point where there is a delusional or off balance type of behaviour, then the derogatory name calling needs to stop.

This is your BRAIN! What does your brain do? Well of course it controls every single thing you do right? The way you talk, the way you walk, the way you think... well it's what keeps you functioning and alive!

Carol, I don't know exactly what the nature of your problem is, because no one here can diagnose you, but I do know... as well as everyone else here, that you have serious problems. Lets even say you are a troll, just for arguments sake. You still have serious mental issues that need to be addressed, if you think it's fun to come here and take up others time.

There is one thing I can say for sure. You are bucking for attention, and you are looking for your identity. You are trying to identify yourself by being a cutter, a sexual devient, among other things. You don't know what this is doing to yourself worth. You haven't got the ability yet, as far as your brain development goes, to see around corners and figure out how this will effect your life in the future. You are looking for short term relief.

There is help for you if you want it, and you definitely need it! So once again, see a professional by whatever means you need to, so you can be diagnosed and get the help you need with your particular problem. Forget about the boys, and focus on yourself. You are missing out on the best yrs. Of your life if you don't.

You can still talk to us. All we ask is that you tell the truth!

Out of greenies - as always, Starbuck, from the heart, meaningful, touching.

(What we need here is the board psychic reader to tell us what is going to happen next - if she's finished on the dog board).

I continue to be amazed by the postings which are either full out or borderline offensive. Name calling, things of that nature. Sad. Whatever happened to tolerance, sensitivity?

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I continue to be amazed by the postings which are either full out or borderline offensive. Name calling, things of that nature. Sad. Whatever happened to tolerance, sensitivity?

MMM Judy, and Starbuck, the Offensive "name-calling" you are referring to was MY OPINION on what comes to my mind-I was not directly calling her a Nut...

However YOU yourselves have stated that it is hard to diagnose psychological or physical issues over the internet. Something that I think we all agree is going on with the op.

My tolerance wears very thin when many times a poster poses ridiculous and time wasting posts about what seems to be concocted (most likely false) drivel, in order to elict responses from those of us here who are TRYING to help legitimate questioners with their issues.

I have read some responses by you with rspect to "Clairvoyance and dogs eating their poop" where is your tolerance for something YOU don't understand? That may or may not be legitimate?

Please.

Perhaps if you read some of the other responses to the original OP, you would see that my feelings (maybe in not so many words) are shared by many others here, the person needs psychological help and seems to be all over the shop with non-sensical posts and disconnected responses to relevant questions.

Cheers

This is not about sharing feelings - ("... you would see that my feelings (maybe in not so many words) are shared by many others here, ...") I don't see anyone else feeling that this woman is a nutbag. I see people concerned about her, doubting her and everything in between. Please do not try to put YOUR words in MY mouth.

This is about the specific word you used - "I'm sorry but the term "nutbag" comes to mind."

Your "you were not calling her a name, that's just something you were feeling" logic is absolutely ridiculous.

I don't see anyone else using similar derogatory language. Maybe you know what the rest of the gang is thinking; I don't.

Do not try to justify your bad behavior with my concerns about the internet psychic who so far has predicted when a dog will stop eating "poop" and that a woman is not pregnant. I see no name calling on my part.

I do on yours.

Closed. The OP can PM me to have it re-opened.