When a woman is confused and "acting out", time to get to know yourself and your real needs with the help of a good therapist.

There is happiness for you down the road of self-realization. :)

Very best wishes to you, :)

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Originally Posted by Confused Woman

Yes it is morally wrong and I never wanted my marriage to take this turn......you are right I just have to pray everyday to get and keep him out of my mind until he is......

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Good,that is an honest beginning and prayer has always helped me find my way,hopefully you will find yours as well..

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Originally Posted by Confused Woman

What does it mean when your guy on the side only wants you to provide then with oral satification? And the only time you have sex together is when you intiate it o but if you dont you are only pleasing him. Why would a guy do that to a girl that they've known for years?

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That's what is called a "Booty Call". And there are some women that preffer that as well, not just guys.