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  • Feb 19, 2008, 08:56 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by azkad79
    It is something strictly prohibited by religion, you donot have to do immoral things like having oral just for your satisfaction; everybody should learn how to fight against his/her satisfaction; if someone asks us to do an immoral act, only for satisfaction, first think whether it is good or bad morally, then commit yourself to that act; DO NOT FORGET WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS, NOT ANIMALS

    Its not an immoral act if its your spouse. And fighting doing pleasurable stuff with your spouse sounds like something the same people that send kids and mental deficients to blow others up in the name of their religion profess.

    Want to be celibate... thats your choice. Depriving your spouse of enjoyment isn't part of any official religion I know of.
  • Feb 19, 2008, 09:04 AM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by azkad79
    It is something strictly prohibited by religion, you donot have to do immoral things like having oral just for your satisfaction; everybody should learn how to fight against his/her satisfaction; if someone asks us to do an immoral act, only for satisfaction, first think whether it is good or bad morally, then commit yourself to that act; DO NOT FORGET WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS, NOT ANIMALS

    Is masturbation bad too, because if it is then I'm going to H E double hockey sticks and I'm taking most of you with me. Satisfaction isn't a bad thing, in fact it can be very, very good.

    I respect your religious views and your right to state them, please show the rest of us the same courtesy.
  • Feb 19, 2008, 09:25 AM
    ISneezeFunny
    There really isn't a scripture in the bible, the torah, or the koran that specifically states "DO NOT ENGAGE IN ORAL SEX". It's up to the translation.

    If you can find me a definite scripture that actually prohibits oral sex, I may have a different view on it.
  • Feb 19, 2008, 09:31 AM
    Synnen
    Boy, I'm glad I don't follow a religion that tells me I'm bad for enjoying myself in bed.
  • Feb 20, 2008, 07:20 AM
    Starrviolet
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Synnen
    Boy, I'm glad I don't follow a religion that tells me I'm bad for enjoying myself in bed.

    I agree. I feel it is ridiculous that a religion should be able to tell you what you can and can't do with the one you love for pleasing each other... that would totally suck!
  • Feb 20, 2008, 08:56 AM
    Alty
    If you want to get technical, god gave us the parts, if he didn't want us to reach orgasm he wouldn't have made it possible.
  • Feb 20, 2008, 09:24 AM
    talaniman
    The only one who makes the rules in my bedroom, are me and my wife.
  • Feb 20, 2008, 10:36 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    and the evil monkey that lives in my closet.
    That's a little to freaky for me, so better let him get his own monkey, to play with.
  • Feb 20, 2008, 08:04 PM
    azkad79
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg
    Is masturbation bad too, because if it is then I'm going to H E double hockey sticks and I'm taking most of you with me. Satisfaction isn't a bad thing, in fact it can be very, very good.

    I respect your religious views and your right to state them, please show the rest of us the same courtesy.

    Dear friend,
    Listen carefully, masturbation is also an unfavourable and bad idea, since every part of the body, i.e. arms, legs, tongue, eyes etc. are created with a definite purpose, they should do the acts the God Almighty demands.
    Why do not you eat the staff coming down from your nose. Is it a good idea? No, you never commit yourself to that, that is never eat that, it is disgusting, it is nasty, it is nauseating, isn't it?
    So, giving or receiving oral or mansturbation is similar to eating back spew or vomit. Because people in society are doing such things, the society is decaying day by day, just picture for yourself the future of such society, today giving oral, masturbatio, tomorrow...
    Think over it a bit. Thanks.
  • Feb 20, 2008, 08:25 PM
    Alty
    Azkad- I believe in Freedom of religion, therefore I will not look down on you just because your beliefs are different from mine. I do, however, not agree with you.

    If god didn't want us to have pleasure or to give pleasure he wouldn't have made sex and everything related with it so pleasurable. Masturbating is a normal way to discover your own body and what gives you pleasure, it is not disgusting, nasty or nauseating. If you read my previous post you'll realize that I don't like giving oral, not because I think it's wrong, but because of other issues I have. I'm envious of the people who can enjoy it.

    I would be much more worried about the people that are beating their children, abusing their spouses, murdering, robbing etc. Those things are disgusting.

    Please respect our rights to believe what we believe, I have talked to allot of the people on this sight and know them to be kind and caring people, in the long run that is the most important thing.
  • Feb 20, 2008, 09:59 PM
    kp2171
    We don't need to defend our positions from azkad's opinion.

    I respectfully disagree, and that is that. Done.

    His stating a differing opinion presents no objection whatsoever. He has stated his opinion respectfully and honestly.

    In the meantime, I will gladly go down on my partner, see her arch her back in divine pleasure and feel her grasp at my head to finish the job. I will kiss, caress, suck, and lick her into a place of wonderful pleasure. And if God objects... OK.

    If there is anything on this earth that is more beautiful than a woman coming with your mouth on her, I've yet to know it.
  • Feb 21, 2008, 12:28 AM
    FallenFromGrace
    Wow.. am I the only one panting after reading KP's post? I got to get out more.
  • Feb 22, 2008, 07:55 AM
    dicer
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by BROCKSGIRL86
    I LOVE IT. i love feeling that power. i can go as fast or slow as i want, just to know that my husband is enjoying every min of it just makes me want him more, then when i can't take it i jump him. but its wired he does not want it all the time. somedays he just wants to do it.

    do men like getting BJs from us?? or do you just want to by pass it sometimes and just "do it"??


    Yes, I think all men like BJ's. But I have to be honoust. There have been times I have asked my wife not to do it, sometimes I am not in the mood for it and I guess sometimes I want to make love to her, and spoil her in bed and make sure she can enjoy it without thinking of me.
  • Feb 22, 2008, 11:57 AM
    Alty
    I know my hubby wants it all the time, maybe because I don't like to give it. I think that oral sex is like anything else in this world, too much and you get bored with it, not enough and you crave it. The one thing I'll never get bored with is a good chocolate bar, that never gets old or boring.:p
  • Feb 22, 2008, 12:07 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg
    I know my hubby wants it all the time, maybe because I don't like to give it. I think that oral sex is like anything else in this world, too much and you get bored with it, not enough and you crave it. The one thing I'll never get bored with is a good chocolate bar, that never gets old or boring.:p

    Oh there is no such thing as too much good oral sex... :D
  • Feb 22, 2008, 12:20 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy
    Oh there is no such thing as too much good oral sex.........:D

    But you must admit that a great chocolate is better that bad oral sex anyday.
  • Feb 22, 2008, 01:09 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg
    But you must admit that a great chocolate is better that bad oral sex anyday.

    Ouch... that drags up a bad memory...

    Teeth... not the teeth... :eek:



    I do like really good chocolate... :D
  • Feb 22, 2008, 01:10 PM
    Alty
    Yikes, I hope that you didn't suffer any permanent damage.
  • Feb 22, 2008, 01:12 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg
    Yikes, I hope that you didn't suffer any permanent damage.

    The bleeding stopped... and you can barely see a scar any more... :eek:


    But no permanent damage.
  • Feb 22, 2008, 01:14 PM
    Alty
    No, no, no, bad mental picture, must erase!! :D

    Really, I'm glad you healed, although if anyone notices you do have a funny story to tell, has enough time gone by for it to be funny, or are you still at the "I'd rather not talk about it" stage?

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