We had sex last night and he would stop and hold back and start again.. we did this for about 30 minutes. We are going to keep doing this every time. He finally listened to me and how it was hurting me all these years. Starting and stopping was frustrating as hell to me , but it is a small price to pay for the outcome. Today he was able to go longer before having to stop. Which was great. To eveyone that has posted here. I would like to thank you all. Everyone was very helpful. But most of all. It helped me to open up with my husband. Again THANKS TO ALL OF YOU.

Told you that you would get it... lol congrats

Well I am back with the same problem. He has cut his hours back to 45 a week. So we will have more time together. But like always, he will work on this for a while than it is back to the same old thing. I talked with him yesterday about this and he told me he was just being lazy in our relationship. And said he would work on it. But no change yet. And to be honest I feel this is just going to be something I will have to live with because I do love him and I don't want to cheat. So I give the he.. up on this. I have been trying for years and he will always start to try and less than a week it is back to the minute man. Not trying to make his self last any time at all. THANKS GOD FOR MY TOYS...

Must buy more

Well this is what has happened over the past few months. I cheated and I don't feel bad about it. I told him I was going to. Now if he believed me or not I don't know. But I really don't care anymore. We have other problems as well. That I have posted on the marriage area. This guy knows it is only sex I want and that I am not going to leave my husband. At least not at this point anyway. But I wouldn't for this guy anyway. He is cheating as well. But it is with girlfriend not a wife.