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look in the end he wanted it so did I and were both happy he left his girl friend that's it
That was on May 2. Today is May 8 and suddenly you're back at square one?
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I can't stop thinking about him all day every day and I think I'm obsessed with him I went over to his house the other day and I showed him his old year book his 45 years old and I showed him he was like are you stalking me ?
You are obsessed and you do seem to be stalking him. How many times does he have to show you, and tell you, that he's not interested, before you get it?
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and I was like no I'm not and he had this look on his face like he was not upset but the look of heart ake because he knows I like him I think but he has a girlfriend but I feel we went down this Path and he turns around and gets himself a girl friend but I can't stop thinking about him and I don't want to hate him or stork him I don't want to lose him as a friend what should I do?
He went and got a girlfriend? Is this a different one than the one he supposedly dumped 6 days ago to be with you?
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I want to have some physical with him but I don't know weather he been with a man before or he is not ready to have sex with men I don't know and I get it! He has a girl friend I know I understand but he also lead me as well up until this point and he thinks that's it I asked him if he was bisexual he told me that he is not and gave me some reason to do with him being a father and mother to his kids while his ex wife was suffering depression and he hates when I used the word fag and the reason why is because when he was in younger he had friends that where gay and where bashed to death and that's the reason why he hates that word and that it reminds him of that time he also said that he then 20 minutes later he told me he is what should I do
You should respect him enough to leave him alone. He has a girlfriend! His sexual orientation doesn't matter. If he is bi, or gay, or whatever, that doesn't mean that you have the green light to break up this family. Do the right thing and leave the man alone!
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... few days after this conversation I went over to his house and we were talking and he said something and I said I replied um... your bisexual? He reply no I'm not I said yes you are you said you were you told me you were he no I didn't say that at all you asked me if I was and I told you I wasn't I said yes that's right but 20mins later in mid conversation you said "im bisexual" no I'm not and said maybe your gay or bisexual you seem to to talk about gays a lot you must have something with gays or bisexuals and just turn it all round and said all the things that he was doing I did and said that's what you get when you prior in to peoples live's and I said he full of and he replied no your full of and then in mid conversation again he turns and says maybe ill get my boyfriend to come and bash you and had a smile on his face and I justed looked at him like are you right? Anyway so that were I am at were are supposed to be going some where later this week but I don't know if we will be going now
You really need to write this part clearer, it's very hard to read.
Our advice hasn't changed since the last time you posted. Leave him alone. If he wanted to be with you, he'd dump the girlfriend and be with you. He hasn't, so that's your answer. What you want doesn't matter, it takes two to tango and he doesn't want to dance with you.
Move on.
