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Its not an immoral act if its your spouse. And fighting doing pleasurable stuff with your spouse sounds like something the same people that send kids and mental deficients to blow others up in the name of their religion profess.Quote:
Originally Posted by azkad79
Want to be celibate... thats your choice. Depriving your spouse of enjoyment isn't part of any official religion I know of.
Is masturbation bad too, because if it is then I'm going to H E double hockey sticks and I'm taking most of you with me. Satisfaction isn't a bad thing, in fact it can be very, very good.Quote:
Originally Posted by azkad79
I respect your religious views and your right to state them, please show the rest of us the same courtesy.
There really isn't a scripture in the bible, the torah, or the koran that specifically states "DO NOT ENGAGE IN ORAL SEX". It's up to the translation.
If you can find me a definite scripture that actually prohibits oral sex, I may have a different view on it.
Boy, I'm glad I don't follow a religion that tells me I'm bad for enjoying myself in bed.
I agree. I feel it is ridiculous that a religion should be able to tell you what you can and can't do with the one you love for pleasing each other... that would totally suck!Quote:
Originally Posted by Synnen
If you want to get technical, god gave us the parts, if he didn't want us to reach orgasm he wouldn't have made it possible.
The only one who makes the rules in my bedroom, are me and my wife.
That's a little to freaky for me, so better let him get his own monkey, to play with.Quote:
and the evil monkey that lives in my closet.
Dear friend,Quote:
Originally Posted by Altenweg
Listen carefully, masturbation is also an unfavourable and bad idea, since every part of the body, i.e. arms, legs, tongue, eyes etc. are created with a definite purpose, they should do the acts the God Almighty demands.
Why do not you eat the staff coming down from your nose. Is it a good idea? No, you never commit yourself to that, that is never eat that, it is disgusting, it is nasty, it is nauseating, isn't it?
So, giving or receiving oral or mansturbation is similar to eating back spew or vomit. Because people in society are doing such things, the society is decaying day by day, just picture for yourself the future of such society, today giving oral, masturbatio, tomorrow...
Think over it a bit. Thanks.
Azkad- I believe in Freedom of religion, therefore I will not look down on you just because your beliefs are different from mine. I do, however, not agree with you.
If god didn't want us to have pleasure or to give pleasure he wouldn't have made sex and everything related with it so pleasurable. Masturbating is a normal way to discover your own body and what gives you pleasure, it is not disgusting, nasty or nauseating. If you read my previous post you'll realize that I don't like giving oral, not because I think it's wrong, but because of other issues I have. I'm envious of the people who can enjoy it.
I would be much more worried about the people that are beating their children, abusing their spouses, murdering, robbing etc. Those things are disgusting.
Please respect our rights to believe what we believe, I have talked to allot of the people on this sight and know them to be kind and caring people, in the long run that is the most important thing.
We don't need to defend our positions from azkad's opinion.
I respectfully disagree, and that is that. Done.
His stating a differing opinion presents no objection whatsoever. He has stated his opinion respectfully and honestly.
In the meantime, I will gladly go down on my partner, see her arch her back in divine pleasure and feel her grasp at my head to finish the job. I will kiss, caress, suck, and lick her into a place of wonderful pleasure. And if God objects... OK.
If there is anything on this earth that is more beautiful than a woman coming with your mouth on her, I've yet to know it.
Wow.. am I the only one panting after reading KP's post? I got to get out more.
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Originally Posted by BROCKSGIRL86
Yes, I think all men like BJ's. But I have to be honoust. There have been times I have asked my wife not to do it, sometimes I am not in the mood for it and I guess sometimes I want to make love to her, and spoil her in bed and make sure she can enjoy it without thinking of me.
I know my hubby wants it all the time, maybe because I don't like to give it. I think that oral sex is like anything else in this world, too much and you get bored with it, not enough and you crave it. The one thing I'll never get bored with is a good chocolate bar, that never gets old or boring.:p
Oh there is no such thing as too much good oral sex... :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Altenweg
But you must admit that a great chocolate is better that bad oral sex anyday.Quote:
Originally Posted by smoothy
Ouch... that drags up a bad memory...Quote:
Originally Posted by Altenweg
Teeth... not the teeth... :eek:
I do like really good chocolate... :D
Yikes, I hope that you didn't suffer any permanent damage.
The bleeding stopped... and you can barely see a scar any more... :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by Altenweg
But no permanent damage.
No, no, no, bad mental picture, must erase!! :D
Really, I'm glad you healed, although if anyone notices you do have a funny story to tell, has enough time gone by for it to be funny, or are you still at the "I'd rather not talk about it" stage?
There's a honey with a chocolate jones on the site today...
Seems to be a theme running through some threads...
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Originally Posted by kp2171
That might be my fault. I've mentioned chocolate in a few of my posts today. I just have an irresistible urge for chocolate today, come to think of it, yesterday wasn't much better, or the day before for that matter. Darnit, will I ever get chocolate off my mind?
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Originally Posted by Altenweg
I was able to laugh about it even when it happened... I'm an easy going guy. :D
I remember telling her if she was hungry all she had to do was say so, we could have gone out for something. :D
It gave her something to laugh about and not feel bad or guilty.
You'd have to be pretty easy going if you can laugh about being nibbled.
The funniest thing I can remember (the memory is going, I'm getting old) is my husband and I wrestling on the bed, (before we got married) we got a bit too physical and he ended up flipping me off the bed. I landed on the dresser and his clock radio smashed to the ground. There I am bleeding and bruised, he gets of the bed and looks at me with hurt and sadness in his eyes, I'm thinking, "oh what a sweet sensitive guy, he's sorry I got hurt", he says "my poor clock radio, I can't believe you broke it."
We've been married for 13 years this May. If I mention that day he still looks sad, I know he misses his clock radio!:rolleyes:
Can we puh-leeeeeze stay on topic?
Pretty please?
I know that threads have their moments of silliness, but let's get back on track now, okay?
Its not like giving oral is fun or something, but I do it for my boyfriend because I love him, and it's a selfless thing to do. I think its very degrading for girls to give oral sex to guys they barely know, or don't love. Disagree if you want, but its something you should only do for someone you have a close bond with. I believe it is completely different from actual intercourse.
I love giving my man oral. Before sex during sex after sex. Don't matter. I enjoy having him in my mouth. Thinking of giving him head makes me hornyQuote:
Originally Posted by LifePaparazzi
Men can get noisy when a woman is in control of that area. I like noisy, out of control men who are flopping and quivering in ecstacy because of what I'm doing. Huge turn on, and it's a gift too, and it's free. If the gag reflex is not getting better with conditioning, hum while just holding the head in your mouth. If the taste of semen bothers you, ask for a 'pearl necklace'. If the smell bothers you, do it in the shower. If the whole idea bothers you, you have my prayers.
I definitely enjoy giving my man head! He enjoys giving me head too! But I do have to be honest and say that he is the only man I have ever enjoyed performing oral sex on. It's mostly because of his reactions to it.
I do, I like the fact that I'm giving my man pleasure, that I'm the cause for his moans, its really exciting to me!!
It differs for a lot of women. I find that the more affectionate the man is to me the more likely I am to do anything to pleasure him. If he is sweet nice and wonderful he'll get whatever he wants and I'll even smile while doing it. Its not the easiest part of sex but its not terrible. I gain no plesure from it personally but I will do it to see the pleasure on a mans face. Just remember to appreciate it. Just like men giving women oral sex its not about pleasure for you its about giving her pleasure and seeing her appreciate it. Also don't expect it because that is the first way to not get it.
Women are each individuals and different.Quote:
Originally Posted by closefriend29
Personally, I don't like giving oral. It makes me bored, turned off, and feels like I'm about to choke. Plus usually I don't get anything in return.
This is an inappropriate negative thrown against a member (hollylovesbrandon) who stated her opinion... its her opinion... just as one might say they like the taste of beer... or they like the color lime green... you don't have to agree...Quote:
white-rose disagrees: Ew. Im sorry but that's gross!
But disagrees are meant to be tied to factual incorrectness.
Please review the AMHD site rules before you inappropriately rate our thoughtful users again. If you don't agree with an opinion, state it in your own post within the thread.
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I appreciate the post in my defense. It was just my opinion. And, also in my opinion, if you can't take a little bit of blatant sexuality on the Adult Sexuality board then I suugest that you do not read it. Things are going to get into detail and if you cannot handle it, please go somewhere else to post your opinions. Now, with that said, onto topic.
I have never given a blow job to any man but my husband. There reason is because I think a blow job is something that is sacred and should be shared and saved for the one that you love. He was a virgin when we got together. Not for a spiritual reason, but simply because he sees sex as a love thing and he had never been in love.I like doing it to please my man. I love the look on his face when I flick my tongue back and forth across the head of his penis right when he's ready to come. Showing off my skills in that area also gives him a turn on. There is nothing demoralizing, distasteful, or slutty about it. It's a sexual act of love. The man should be appreciative that we do it out of love, not out of obligation. Once again, this is only my humble opinion.
Its funny you say that because every girl I have met has given me head immedietly.
I love it!
Haha, you go girl!
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