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Originally Posted by Lissieloulou

Hi everyone.

Just thought id let you all know that me & my boyfriend went away for 2 nights this week & we had sex. 3 times lol. I now realise why he was so embarassed about doing it as he only lasts for 1 min, but i still enjoyed it & want to keep his confidence boosted

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Luckily, with lots of practice, that can be extended. Well practice as well as some things to help. Look into condoms, especially "Extended duration" with the desensitizing lube, to help control what he's feeling and let him last longer. Just make sure he puts them on lube side in or it might not be so pleasurable for you.

As well, and this is something I have really learned, foreplay. Lots of it. Him on you style. Prolong the happy and intense feelings so that when penetration and intercourse comes along everything is already in a happy fun place and the quick shot isn't really noticed.

One of the important things is to not call that much attention to this. It will get better, but you have to be patient and accepting, it is a huge male ego thing.

Keep with him its not all about sex. Love conquers all.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

Keep with him its not all about sex. Love conquers all.

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You've been watching too many movies. Love rarely conquers all, nor is it enough. It isn't all about the sex but it is one of the pillars of a relationship.If that pillar changes, it could topple everything or it could have no effect.

Being realistic and rational is almost more important then being emotional when evaluating a relationship.