Angeltri, I'm confused - you've posted problems with your boyfriend, porn, immigration. Now you are mentioning your husband.

Which is it?

I agree with Judy... particularly since those were ALL within the span of a month.

Are you guys saying that because she went to a nude beach she is REQUIRED to have public sex?? How does that even sound rational in your heads? It's like saying the girl who dresses like skank was asking to be raped. My God it's 2013, when will we move on from this dated thinking? Regardless if she wanted to have sex and then changed her mind, it's her body and her right, and in no way should he have pressured her or made her feel insecure about that decision.

I feel like the blame is being placed on the OP for what type of resort she chose to vacation in. Don't go to nude beaches if you don't plan on having public sex? How does that make sense?

I think your hubby is an idiot, like previously mentioned, and I don't care what you were wearing or how you were acting. He is acting like a childish baby! He needs to move on and apologize. I haven't read your other threads, but I also know first hand how "easy" it ISN'T to up and leave an abusive relationship. He may not be physically abusing you, but this is certainly mental abuse.

I hope you can find the right outlets to either find the help your relationship needs or the courage to leave him in the hot tub... with his fantasies.