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Originally Posted by imblogqueen

I don't know if i can see a therapist.. you know?

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No, I don't. Tell me why not.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

No, I don't. Tell me why not.

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Well, where I live.. people don't usually see therapists.. I think..

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Originally Posted by imblogqueen

Well, where I live.. people don't usually see therapists.. I think..

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And where do you live? Are there therapists hiding there somewhere?

If I told someone I had problems... their solution will be prayer

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Originally Posted by imblogqueen

If i told someone I had problems... their solution will be prayer

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Not good enough. You need a real-life therapist. Have you Googled for therapists in your area?

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Originally Posted by imblogqueen

If i told someone I had problems... their solution will be prayer

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Where are you? Your username, Imblogqueen IE I'm blog queen, sounds like it is western. South States? The bible belt? In a Amish or other compound? If you're talking college than it is in a progressive place, but the staying with family until married...

Find a therapist a few towns over. The therapist will be confidential. If you go a few towns over than you can find someone. A lot of people won't need to know that you're seeing a therapist. To be honest more people than you think are seeing thereapists. There is a lot going on in people's heads that they don't know how to deal with. We get so scattered that we don't know how to deal with things.

Find a way. Don't be concerned with what people think or what they say. The ones that don't ask, don't matter. The ones that do will understand.

Nothing personal, of course, but perhaps all of the threads should be combined so the problems can be seen in total.

And, yes, "Craven," I'll buy your book any time.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Nothing personal, of course, but perhaps all of the threads should be combined so the problems can be seen in total.

And, yes, "Craven," I'll buy your book any time.

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I get really flattered on here some days. :-) Appreciate every word of it too.

Maybe I will put out a book. Name it after a person who gave me an awesome amount of inspiration. "Life Sucks, get a f**king helmet." Inspired by Denis Leary. :-) His skit on re-hab was epic. :-)

He always reminds me of George Carlin - and I LOVED George Carlin.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Not good enough. You need a real-life therapist. Have you Googled for therapists in your area?

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No I have not Google therapists... I'm going to take the advice you guys already gave me... give it a month... and in the meanwhile see if there are any therapists around

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Originally Posted by CravenMorhead

Where are you? Your username, Imblogqueen IE I'm blog queen, sounds like it is western. South States? The bible belt? in a Amish or other compound? If you're talking college than it is in a progressive place, but the staying with family until married...

Find a therapist a few towns over. The therapist will be confidential. If you go a few towns over than you can find someone. A lot of people won't need to know that you're seeing a therapist. To be honest more people than you think are seeing thereapists. There is a lot going on in people's heads that they don't know how to deal with. We get so scattered that we don't know how to deal with things.

Find a way. Don't be concerned with what people think or what they say. The ones that don't ask, don't matter. The ones that do will understand.

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Yes I stay with family because in my family we stayed in.. Even my sister.
Yes I know a lot of people see therapists in the world... but this place is so small.. everyone knows everyone..

I love your quote "The ones that don't ask, don't matter. The ones that do will understand". Its so very true. Something everyone should live by... :)