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Originally Posted by bones3

Please help..Im 25 years old and totally in love with my boyfriend in everyway...everything is perfect exept the fact that he never wants sex...he never initiates it either...he works nights and 16 hour days so I know hes tierd most of the time...however I only ask or try to have sex when I know hes a bit rested and still hes not too ready! What do I do?? I know hes attracted...he does get an errection all the time...hes all over me with kisses and hugs...he went to the dr and got tested and he does have a low sex drive...but come on hes only 30 years old...what can I do? I don't want to leave him...I know hes not gay because I have seen him act sexual before ...really onto me ...but thats sooo rare...he never goes down on me either...help

thanks :)

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Consider yourself lucky that's all my boyfriend wants... to me its not that important

Hey Bones3

A year or so ago I was so concerned about this! I just didn't understand why he never initiated, I began to question myself.

I finally mustered up the courage to just ask him, and the answer was simply that he was trying not to seem like all he wanted was sex, and that asking for sex so much might upset me or embarrass him. But these days we're comfortable with each other and now I'm saying I'm too tired or have a head ache so often haha!

We'll I have the same problem my boyfriend is 26 and I'am 28 and I am having the same problem I don't know what to do because I am very sexually active now, I love him to death I don't want to cheat on him. What to do??

Research, get you some books and see what you can do.
Also this is simplistic but spice it up, some adult entertainment might help.
Stay in shape and take care of yourself , men are visually attracted.