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Originally Posted by Alty

I'm reminded of the saying "Why do women have such bad depth perception? Because all their lives they've been told that 2 inches is actually 10".

Even if he is as big as he says, you'll stretch to accommodate, and I have had experience with well endowed men. In fact, my first time was with someone that was not small by any means.

You'll be fine.

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Hi Alty,
I appreciate your first-hand experience!
Thanks for that!

Don't get too worked up over length either. That is rarely a problem unless he gets very aggressive. (Tell him WG said to be nice.)

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Don't get too worked up over length either. That is rarely a problem unless he gets very aggressive. (Tell him WG said to be nice.)

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I am not worried about length dear, as it was never a problem before.
It was just the thought of the girth! I didn´t want to say "I do, until girth us do part!"

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Originally Posted by She77

It was just the thought of the girth! I didn´t want to say "I do, until girth us do part!"

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Hahahaha! You'll be fine.

Be sure to report back, like excon said.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Hahahaha! You'll be fine.

Be sure to report back, like excon said.

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I sure will do!

Thanks to everyone for your helpful answers!
This is marvellous to have had such quick feedback!
Thanks a million! She77

We look forward to the report after you're married. Don't get too detailed, we don't want Excon too excited. ;)

But seriously, you'll be fine, and congrats. :)

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Originally Posted by Alty

We look forward to the report after you're married. Don't get too detailed, we don't want Excon too excited. ;)

But seriously, you'll be fine, and congrats. :)

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Thanks for your kindness!!
I will keep it factual.

I do have another question to ask on this subject.
How long will it take before I have adjusted to his size?

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Originally Posted by She77

I do have another question to ask on this subject.
How long will it take before I have adjusted to his size?

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Only experience can answer that question.

Something you might consider is getting a vibrator/adult toy and experimenting. They come in a variety of different sizes and it might help put your mind at ease.

Also remember that arousal begins long before you get into the bedroom.

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Originally Posted by She77

Hi Smoothy,
thanks for your answer.
All the same, I don´t think the comparison can be made.
The body is prepared hormonally for over 9 months before birth. The period of labour and dilation of the vagina and cervix to be open wide enough to give birth usually takes many hours, even up to 48 hours or more before the body is ready.
With intercourse, I realize that hormones come into action in preparing the body, but in all seriousness, I would appreciate a factual answer from someone qualified, with medical advice, (other than "use plenty of lube" etc.).

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And while I could easily take offense to the comment about getting an answer "......but in all seriousness, I would appreciate a factual answer from someone qualified, with medical advice, (other than "use plenty of lube" etc.)......." I won't in this case, so I will point out you aren't talking to someone who is 18... or has only been with one or two women in his life. I am 51... and before I got married I have been with several Dozen Women before I found the right one... and I am not a one trick pony either. I know far more about such things that most women do... and more than a few site members can vouch for me there..

The comparison IS accurate because not even the largest recorded mans penis is more than a fraction the size of a small baby. My point being it's a VERY elastic organ.

And the fact you even had to ask this question tells me you don't have that much experience (with various partners) to know the answer I gave was very accurate.


Many couples also participate in an act called Handballing... (the less crude of its various names) They almost exclusively are NOT pregnant or having prolonged dilation such as child birth... it can easily stretch HALF as much as during child birth and that is still many times large than a well hung guy would be.

And even a small male hand is bigger than a very large wiener.

You are going to have more trouble with a very LONG guy before you will have trouble with a very THICK guy.. its how the organ stretches to accommodate.

Thanks for your feedback Cat.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

And while I could easily take offense to the comment about getting an answer
"from someone qualified.." I won't in this case, so I will point out you aren't talking to someone who is 18....or has only been with one or two women in his life.
The comparison IS accurate because not even the largest recorded mans penis is more than a fraction the size of a small baby. My point being its a VERY elastic organ.

And the fact you even had to ask this question tells me you don't have that much experience (with various partners) to know the answer I gave was very accurate.


Many couples also participate in an act called Handballing....(the less crude of its various names) They almost exclusively are NOT pregnant or having prolonged dilation such as child birth....it can easily stretch HALF as much as during child birth and that is still many times large than a well hung guy would be.

And even a small male hand is bigger than a very large wiener.

I am 51....and before I got married I have been with several Dozen Women before I found the right one....and I am not a one trick pony either. I know far more about such things that most women do....and more than a few site members can vouch for me there..

You are going to have more trouble with a very LONG guy before you will have trouble with a very THICK guy.. its how the organ stretches to accommodate.

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Thanks dear Smoothy,
No offense meant, and as a matured man I am sure you will not take offense on such a delicate matter!
For a man it is easier! He does not have the same concerns as women do.
I have heard a lot of opinions on a variety of subjects in my 55 years and not all have been factual.
I am in my menopause and have not had intercourse since my divorce over 20 years ago, so I am preparing myself mentally and emotionally for a new marriage and this information is important for me to be at ease beforehand.

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Originally Posted by She77

I have heard a lot of opinions on a variety of subjects in my 55 years and not all have been factual.
I am in my menopause and have not had intercourse since my divorce over 20 years ago

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NOW you are telling us this? I had gotten the impression you are a sweet young thing in her 20s.

Have you had children?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

NOW you are telling us this? I had gotten the impression you are a sweet young thing in her 20s.

Have you had children?

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My dear, please re-read my question.
I had already mentioned that I was married before, so that should
Have told you that I am not in my 20´s.
No, my former husband was not able to give me children.
All the same, it does not stop me from being a sweet young woman in my 50`s!

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Originally Posted by She77

Thanks dear Smoothy,
no offense meant, and as a matured man I am sure you will not take offense on such a delicate matter!!
For a man it is easier! He does not have the same concerns as women do.
I have heard a lot of opinions on a variety of subjects in my 55 years and not all have been factual.
I am in my menopause and have not had intercourse since my divorce over 20 years ago, so I am preparing myself mentally and emotionally for a new marriage and this information is important for me to be at ease beforehand.

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And at that age (thanks for mentioning it) you might already be experiencing the typical natual lubrication issues most women have from time to time... and more often post menopausal

Actually you might find LESS problems at this age than you would have at 18. Just consider and remember.. as we guys age... (just like you ladies) we become less judgmental and more understanding... don't worry... he's planning on marrying you... you would really have to work hard to screw anything up enough to upset or disappoint him.

Just be yourself... the rest will fall into place.

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Originally Posted by She77

I had already mentioned that I was married before, so that should
have told you that I am not in my 20´s.

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That doesn't mean that at all! You could have been married at 21, divorced, and now you are 24.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

And at that age (thanks for mentioning it) you might already be experiencing the typical natual lubrication issues most women have from time to time...and more often post menopausal

Actually you might find LESS problems at this age than you would have at 18. Just consider and remember..as we guys age...(just like you ladies) we become less judgmental and more understanding.....don't worry....he's planning on marrying you....you would really have to work hard to screw anything up enough to upset or disappoint him.

Just be yourself...the rest will fall into place.

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Thanks for your answer Smoothy,
I really look after myself physically, and nutrition wise by eating all the right foods to ensure that everything is functioning well. I am often taken to be around 40 as a result of this.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

That doesn't mean that at all! You could have been married at 21, divorced, and now you are 24.

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Thanks dear,
I am feeling like 24 presently, with all the good things happening in my life!

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Originally Posted by She77

Thanks for your answer Smoothy,
I really look after myself physically, and nutrition wise by eating all the right foods to ensure that everything is functioning well. I am often taken to be around 40 as a result of this.

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Both myself and my wife both pass for 10 years younger than we are as well, even though I do admit to needing to lose some weight myself. One of the hazards of being married to someone who is a better cook than you are yourself and I'm not a bad one.