Ask Me Help Desk - Pregnant

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

"She is sure." She has never run or cleaned house? And you both have put your fingers inside her.

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Originally Posted by dsunil067

Thank You. I washed my hand thrice and while clothing, my right hand rubbed again shirt and jeans for 2-3 min. I 2 believe that my hands were completely dry when i fingered her. She is 100 % sure that my hand was dry.
Is there possibility of a sperm be on my hand?

Anything is possible. Sorry, I can't tell you with 100% certainty that there was no sperm on your hands. You can't either, otherwise you wouldn't be here asking this question. Obviously it's possible, or you wouldn't be worried.

But, like I said, it's highly unlikely that she's pregnant. Highly unlikely. Not impossible, but doubtful. Even if you had sperm on your hand it's unlikely.

This has you worried, very worried. That should be a wake up call. That should make you both realize that this is not something you should be doing until you're ready to have a child. So my advice stands, keep it in your pants, and keep your fingers out of her vagina until you learn more about sex, and you're ready to be a father.

As for the hymen. There's no way that you can be 100% certain that her hymen is still intact. Not all women bleed when their hymen is broken. It's very possible that you broke her hymen with your finger. It's also possible that her hymen was torn another way. Falling off a bike, riding a horse, bending the wrong way. She could have been born without a hymen, many women are.

It's obvious that you're from a different country. I'd guess it's a country where virginity is very important. If you end up marrying this girl, or another girl, you should know that bleeding during a girls first time doesn't always happen. Also, the lack of a hymen does not mean that the girl isn't a virgin.

Truth told, you two are having sex. No, you've never put your penis inside of her, but you are having sex. Theoretically you're both still virgins, but logically, you're not. If virginity is important to you, that's an even better reason to keep your hands to yourself and keep your pants zipped.

Good luck.

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Originally Posted by Alty

Anything is possible. Sorry, I can't tell you with 100% certainty that there was no sperm on your hands. You can't either, otherwise you wouldn't be here asking this question. Obviously it's possible, or you wouldn't be worried.

But, like I said, it's highly unlikely that she's pregnant. Highly unlikely. Not impossible, but doubtful. Even if you had sperm on your hand it's unlikely.

This has you worried, very worried. That should be a wake up call. That should make you both realize that this is not something you should be doing until you're ready to have a child. So my advice stands, keep it in your pants, and keep your fingers out of her vagina until you learn more about sex, and you're ready to be a father.

As for the hymen. There's no way that you can be 100% certain that her hymen is still intact. Not all women bleed when their hymen is broken. It's very possible that you broke her hymen with your finger. It's also possible that her hymen was torn another way. Falling off a bike, riding a horse, bending the wrong way. She could have been born without a hymen, many women are.

It's obvious that you're from a different country. I'd guess it's a country where virginity is very important. If you end up marrying this girl, or another girl, you should know that bleeding during a girls first time doesn't always happen. Also, the lack of a hymen does not mean that the girl isn't a virgin.

Truth told, you two are having sex. No, you've never put your penis inside of her, but you are having sex. Theoretically you're both still virgins, but logically, you're not. If virginity is important to you, that's an even better reason to keep your hands to yourself and keep your pants zipped.

Good luck.

Thank you for understanding my situation and for your valuable ans. I just mentioned about hymen. I am with her from past 2 yrs. I ll keep your words in mind and won't do it again.
Just 1 more thing. I washed my hands and dried. Won't sperms die after that? I googled it and it is said that once hands dry, sperms die.
Sorry to trouble you.
Thank you.

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Originally Posted by dsunil067

Thank you for understanding my situation and for your valuable ans. I just mentioned about hymen. I am with her from past 2 yrs. I ll keep your words in mind and wont do it again.
Just 1 more thing. I washed my hands and dried. wont sperms die after that? I googled it and it is said that once hands dry, sperms die.
Sorry to trouble you.
Thank you.

Sperm can live through a lot. In fact, the vagina is a very hostile environment. In fact, it attacks the sperm. Not a gracious host at all.

If sperm can survive the vagina, long enough to reach the egg and fertilize it, a little water won't kill it. Sorry.

But, again, I really don't think you need to worry. I'd be shocked if your girlfriend ended up pregnant from this incident. If she did, I'd ask you to pick out the winning lotto numbers, because you'd have a great shot at getting them right.

You'd have a higher chance of getting hit by an airplane that fell out of the sky, then you would with your girlfriend getting pregnant from this incident.

Is it possible that you could get hit by that airplane? Anything is possible. But odds are you won't. Odds are she's not pregnant. Play the odds. Again though, I can't say it's not possible, it is. But the odds are in our favor that everything will be fine.

Don't worry about this. Really. I highly doubt she's pregnant. But do learn from this. The fear you're feeling right now, that's your heart and soul telling you you're not ready for this. You're not ready to play these games, take these risks. But really, I doubt this one incident resulted in pregnancy. Not impossible, but really not probable.

Either way, worrying about it really doesn't do any good. So don't worry unless you have something to worry about. But really, do take this as a learning experience. :)

Live and learn. Now you know, you have the information.

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Originally Posted by Alty

Sperm can live through a lot. In fact, the vagina is a very hostile environment. In fact, it attacks the sperm. Not a gracious host at all.

If sperm can survive the vagina, long enough to reach the egg and fertilize it, a little water won't kill it. Sorry.

But, again, I really don't think you need to worry. I'd be shocked if your girlfriend ended up pregnant from this incident. If she did, I'd ask you to pick out the winning lotto numbers, because you'd have a great shot at getting them right.

You'd have a higher chance of getting hit by an airplane that fell out of the sky, then you would with your girlfriend getting pregnant from this incident.

Is it possible that you could get hit by that airplane? Anything is possible. But odds are you won't. Odds are she's not pregnant. Play the odds. Again though, I can't say it's not possible, it is. But the odds are in our favor that everything will be fine.

Don't worry about this. Really. I highly doubt she's pregnant. But do learn from this. The fear you're feeling right now, that's your heart and soul telling you you're not ready for this. You're not ready to play these games, take these risks. But really, I doubt this one incident resulted in pregnancy. Not impossible, but really not probable.

Either way, worrying about it really doesn't do any good. So don't worry unless you have something to worry about. But really, do take this as a learning experience. :)

Live and learn. Now you know, you have the information.

Thank You for helping me.

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Originally Posted by dsunil067

Thank You for helping me.

You're very welcome. I hope you've learned something, and that you'll continue to learn. If you have any more questions we're happy to help. :)