If you had read my previous comments, I have explained that I did not expect anything when I first began to have sex.

I have also made sure the chances of pregnancy and STD's very slim indeed.

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As I said before, thank you very much for the concern but I'm not interested. I knew exactly what I was getting into and I stick by my decision.

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No I don't believe you "knew exactly" what you were getting into. And if you still want to stick by that decision, I hope it doesn't backfire on you. But I'm afraid it will.

Sorry but can you stop answering this please? I really don't appreciate your comments.

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Sorry but can you stop answering this please? I really don't appreciate your comments.

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Sorry, I told you this back in response #2:
"Sorry, but you can't tell us what we can or cannot comment on."

I don't expect you to appreciate my comments. I haven't given up on you yet. But more importantly, there may be other teens reading this who are thinking of making this same bad decision and maybe they can learn and be prevented from doing so.

Sorry but I can't exactly take back the fact I am having sex.

You can stop.

Which I have.

Until you're married and in a good place to have a child.

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Which I have.

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Well why didn't you say so? Obviously you can't take it back. But everything you have said indicated you planned on continuing. As I said, the mature decision would be to stop. If you have stopped then maybe you are learning.

I do think I'll be having sex before I'm married.

As for now, I have taken the -mature- decision to stop.

I have stopped for now, I will be having sex in the future.

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I do think I'll be having sex before I'm married.

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As long as when you do you are prepared to have a child.

Thank you. And don't get drunk or lose your inhibitions in some other way. Finish your education first and be the wonderful success story I know you can be.

Of course I won't! Thank you x

You're a good writer and express yourself very nicely. Use your talents and all those great things you possess to get yourself into a good place. I know boys and sex are fun and exciting and challenging, but look higher than that. Don't limit yourself with a baby too early (my two nieces each did this and ruined their futures/greatly limited their choices). Please let us know from time to time how things are going for you and how you are succeeding!

Thank you very much Wondergirl. Thank you all.