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  • Jul 28, 2012, 11:39 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Oh My GOD!!!


    As long as both parties are consenting adults I have no problem with fetishes and other sexual practices.

    Then there's the guy I dated who was "into" high heel shoes. The problem was in his being able to achieve, umm, satisfaction without me being actually in the shoes or, for that matter, in the room.

    So as long as the behavior isn't creeping anyone out -
  • Jul 28, 2012, 01:52 PM
    tink man
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Tinkerbell collection?

    Yup
  • Jul 29, 2012, 02:43 AM
    Tinkerbell28
    My name is David and I can honestly tellyou that I love Tinkerbell. Maybe it is because I never had any friends in life. As far as I can tell I am surprised your husband does that. It doesn't mean his is gay, or bi-sexual. I sure ain't and had plenty of girlfriends that dumped me for having a massive collection of Tinkerbell products. The peanut gallery comments don't help much either. So my advise is to talk to him about toning it down. Let him know how you feel about his actions and your own emotions about it. Also if he loves then you should love him no matter what, cause love comes from within a person not through words.
  • Jul 29, 2012, 05:21 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tinkerbell28 View Post
    My name is David and I can honestly tellyou that I love Tinkerbell. Maybe it is because I never had any friends in life. As far as I can tell I am surprised your husband does that. It doesn't mean his is gay, or bi-sexual. I sure ain't and had plenty of girlfriends that dumped me for having a massive collection of Tinkerbell products. The peanut gallery comments don't help much either. So my advise is to talk to him about toning it down. Let him know how you feel about his actions and your own emotions about it. Also if he loves then you should love him no matter what, cause love comes from within a person not through words.


    I'm asking this sincerely - what is it about Tinkerbell that you like, enjoy, admire?

    I just don't get it. Help my understand.
  • Jul 29, 2012, 06:52 PM
    tink man
    Truth is I love tinkerbell and I'm in the open abowt it I'm not gay my wife hates it because I'm in to it so mutch I have over 2000 dolers Werth of tinkerbell stuff my thing is never had good luck with chiks groweing up and took to tinkerbell it's a fetish I now have for a long time at night I wear fleece tinkerbell hoodes and pants also sleep with tinkerbell blankets sometimes masterbeat with tinkerbell blankets in backseat off my car still have sex with my wife but when she don't give it up I go to tinkerbell at least I don't cheet bin marid for 8 yirs and love my wife verry much but we battle over it all the time my fetish keeps me happy them I wrong for be in this way because I can't help the way I fill if you seen me in town you wold not no I had that fetish I drive a tractortralir and ride a Harley but at night I get
    My tink on
  • Jul 29, 2012, 06:52 PM
    tink man
    Truth is I love tinkerbell and I'm in the open abowt it I'm not gay my wife hates it because I'm in to it so mutch I have over 2000 dolers Werth of tinkerbell stuff my thing is never had good luck with chiks groweing up and took to tinkerbell it's a fetish I now have for a long time at night I wear fleece tinkerbell hoodes and pants also sleep with tinkerbell blankets sometimes masterbeat with tinkerbell blankets in backseat off my car still have sex with my wife but when she don't give it up I go to tinkerbell at least I don't cheet bin marid for 8 yirs and love my wife verry much but we battle over it all the time my fetish keeps me happy them I wrong for be in this way because I can't help the way I fill if you seen me in town you wold not no I had that fetish I drive a tractortralir and ride a Harley but at night I get
    My tink on
  • Jul 30, 2012, 05:18 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tink man View Post
    Truth is I love tinkerbell and I'm in the open abowt it I'm not gay my wife hates it because I'm in to it so mutch I have over 2000 dolers Werth of tinkerbell stuff my thing is never had good luck with chiks groweing up and took to tinkerbell its a fetish I now have for a long time at nite I wear fleece tinkerbell hoodes and pants also sleep with tinkerbell blankets sometimes masterbeat with tinkerbell blankets in backseat off my car still have sex with my wife but wen she don't give it up I go to tinkerbell atleast I don't cheet bin marid for 8 yirs and love my wife verry much but we battle over it all the time my fetish keeps me happy em I wrong for b in this way because I can't help the way I fill if you seen me in town you wold not no I had that fetish I drive a tractortralir and ride a Harley but at nite I get
    my tink on


    Whatever works.

    It's masturbate, not masterbeat.
  • Jul 30, 2012, 03:04 PM
    CravenMorhead
    I really wasn't intending on posting to this. What this sounds like is a Variation of Rule 34. (If you can imagine it than porn for it exists. Don't do a Google for "rule 34 XXXX" where XXXX is something you hold dear to your heart or childhood.)

    Think of Bronies. College age men who are infatuated with the newest incarnation of My Little Pony. It is just a little disturbing, but accepted. The unfortunate thing is that it is starting to gain entrance and acceptance in the furry porn world. The vast wealth of filth out there is surprising some days.

    All things considered it is a relatively harmless fetish. So long as your don't involve the public at large or anyone else with it. It is something that needs to be discussed by all parties, but when you look at it... it isn't so bad. It just needs to be monitored. It can get dangerously close paedophile territory.
  • Jul 31, 2012, 08:35 AM
    tink man
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by CravenMorhead View Post
    I really wasn't intending on posting to this. What this sounds like is a Variation of Rule 34. (If you can imagine it than porn for it exists. Don't do a google for "rule 34 XXXX" where XXXX is something you hold dear to your heart or childhood.)

    Think of Bronies. College age men who are infatuated with the newest incarnation of My Little Pony. It is just a little disturbing, but accepted. The unfortunate thing is that it is starting to gain entrance and acceptance in the furry porn world. The vast wealth of filth out there is surprising some days.

    All things considered it is a relatively harmless fetish. So long as your don't involve the public at large or anyone else with it. It is something that needs to be discussed by all parties, but when you look at it... it isn't so bad. It just needs to be monitored. It can get dangerously close paedophile territory.

    It's nuthin bad like that just a simple fetish that go's no further then that just wish my wife would dress up like tinkerbell sometimes but she don't so its just a thing when she is not arownd but I've bin chilen out with it a lot for my wife we have a good marig I don't want to scru up but I still have my tinkerbell fetish I just try to keep it to myself and give all my time to her when she's heir with me I just want peeps to no I'm not a fag or crazy just lonely some time that's how I deil with it is it wrong for that to b ?
  • Jul 31, 2012, 08:47 AM
    CravenMorhead
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tink man View Post
    It's nuthin bad like that just a simple fetish that go's no futher then that just wish my wife would dress up like tinkerbell sometimes but she don't so its just a thing when she is not arownd but I've bin chilen out with it a lot for my wife we have a good marig I don't want to scru up but I still have my tinkerbell fetish I just try to keep it to my self and give all my time to her when she's heir with me I just want peeps to no I'm not a fag or crazy just lonely some time that's how I deil with it is it wrong for that to b ?

    You have been here a while and this is starting to annoy me. Please type like an adult. Use your spell check and all your words. No text typing or chat typing. If you want to be taken seriously type like you mean to be.

    For example, Nothing, Further, Around, Chillin', Be, Screw, Marriage, here, people/fiends.

    I can understand that english may or may not be your first language, but respect that there are people here who want to help you and when you type like that it is REALLY hard for them to understand. Be clear and concise. It isn't just a suggest but part of what you agreed to when you signed up for this site.

    That being said, it would be nice for your wife to be open minded, but this is probably rubbing her the wrong what. You're sexuality a child's cartoon figure, something she grew up with. It isn't wrong that would want to explore that, but understand her view point as well. She's a hard time trying to differentiate your fetish from paedophilia.

    A lot of people with fetishes get very self-centred with them. It turns to be all about how to get them off with their fetish instead of, and I hate to say it but, vanilla sex. They become very self-centred so instead of listening to your wife and appreciating her viewpoint, you get stuck in yours. Be considerate. She's said no. Drop it. Masturbate to your tinkerbell stuff but don't rub your wife's nose in it.

    It isn't all about you. Especially once you find someone who will indulge you.
  • Jul 31, 2012, 09:00 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by CravenMorhead View Post
    You have been here a while and this is starting to annoy me. Please type like an adult. Use your spell check and all your words. No text typing or chat typing. If you want to be taken seriously type like you mean to be.


    Okay, I always hesitate to post this BUT this person is a troll. The misspellings are calculated - read back through his answers.

    We are at the receiving end of a very bad joke.

    Spidey senses tingling.
  • Jul 31, 2012, 09:22 AM
    CravenMorhead
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Okay, I always hesitate to post this BUT this person is a troll. The misspellings are calculated - read back through his answers.

    We are at the receiving end of a very bad joke.

    Spidey senses tingling.

    ...

    Booger! I hate it when that happens.
  • Jul 31, 2012, 09:45 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by CravenMorhead View Post
    ....

    Booger! I hate it when that happens.


    Good news is there won't be anyone at the AMHD annual picnic wearing a pink tutu and ballet shoes and "masterbeating."

    You know, that's a pretty good word!
  • Jul 31, 2012, 12:35 PM
    CravenMorhead
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Good news is there won't be anyone at the AMHD annual picnic wearing a pink tutu and ballet shoes and "masterbeating."

    You know, that's a pretty good word!

    IF you're really good at beating eggs... ;-)
  • Aug 2, 2012, 03:13 PM
    fullfigredhead
    Hey I have a guy friend with a tinkerbell fetish. His wife is kind of big and he can't find the costumes to fit her any suggestions? Also he was looking at getting a sex doll of tinkerbell to fulfill his festish more you know one that has the face like her so that he can get it a costume to fulfill his fantacy
  • Aug 2, 2012, 03:18 PM
    odinn7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by fullfigredhead View Post
    hey i have a guy friend with a tinkerbell fetish. His wife is kinda big and he can't find the costumes to fit her any suggestions? also he was looking at getting a sex doll of tinkerbell to fullfill his festish more you know one that has the face like her so that he can get it a costume to fulfill his fantacy

    Right, right...
  • Aug 2, 2012, 03:43 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by fullfigredhead View Post
    hey i have a guy friend with a tinkerbell fetish. His wife is kinda big and he can't find the costumes to fit her any suggestions? also he was looking at getting a sex doll of tinkerbell to fullfill his festish more you know one that has the face like her so that he can get it a costume to fulfill his fantacy

    Post your question separately. Not on the back of this one.
  • Aug 12, 2012, 04:20 PM
    Enigma1999
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    The mental picture of a burly guy in a tutu just made me throw up a little in my mouth.

    HILARIOUS!

    This by far was one of the most entertaining threads I have EVER read here on AMHD! Thank you everyone for a great laugh!

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