Well if you had read my first post you would have seen that this problem was already there when we met. He had the problem before we met too, so please don't try point th finger at me. I have been very supportive and encouraged him to get this sorted out because it isn't a problem that can't be sorted. Try and understand that it is because he doesn't seem to care to sort it out that we have been fighting, which has only been recently. I do not HARP or nag, I don't try make him feel uncomfortable. I love him very much and try and make him feel sexy and encourage us to make love. I care a lot about him and I think that you are perceiving my situation to be just like the women you know situations.
You aren't really a saint, I was being sarcastic. You must be American, it would explain your rudeness and cocky attitude though. I don't need your advice thank -you because being tactical would have meant first getting all the facts and then drawing a conclusion from it. You were more than welcome to ask me more questions to first understand the entire scope, as a paragraph definitely doesn't sum it up completely.
I am not innocent in this and you could have asked me questions about me if you felt it was necessary or could lead to a solution. However you chose just to assume I am an uncaring person who will end up leaving him so I should let him find a caring person. If you really are as compassionate as you are trying to come across as then show compassion to everyone in every situation, that means me and my boyfriend, not just who feel deserves it.
