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  • Jan 11, 2011, 03:37 PM
    tickle
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Enigma1999 View Post
    C'mon guys. Enough!

    The bottom line is that if Op is concerned, then she needs to see her Doctor. Just for her own piece of mind.

    No offence to anybody.

    Yes, I totally agree, this is just a woman enjoying her lover and being concerned about her bodily functions. Slap had a good point; she has to re-hydrate herself a lot more and then she will see balance occurring, that is what she is worried about.

    Thanks, engima for putting a stop on all of this nonsense.

    Hugs, tick
  • Jan 11, 2011, 03:45 PM
    Enigma1999

    You know I love you. Out of respect for op, let's just make it about her.

    If someone wants to start their own thread in the discussion forum about this, then I'm all game.
  • Jan 11, 2011, 07:08 PM
    jenniepepsi

    *hugs* I love both of you so quit arguing :P

    Sorry tickle, I was just pointing out that when I climax I very often empty my bladder from the contraction, so I started going to the bathroom before bedroom :P I thought maybe the OP may be experiancing that .
  • Jan 12, 2011, 05:47 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jenniepepsi View Post
    *hugs* i love both of ya so quit arguing :P

    sorry tickle, i was just pointing out that when i climax i very often empty my bladder from the contraction, so i started going to the bathroom before bedroom :P i thought maybe the OP may be experiancing that .

    As I'm sure you know, if you talked to your Gyno... THAT isn't all that uncommon among women (actually increaces after several children). Same advice the wife was to her given too... though in her case its more of a leakage than a voiding thing. But it does run the full range depending on the person and situation. Told her to ask when she had her appointment a number of years back... and they confimed that.

    Its just how women are built.
  • Jan 12, 2011, 09:10 AM
    tickle

    A bladder elevation (simple enough surgery) can eliminate the leakage problem which occurs while running, any physical activity. I never had that problem during sex, but did while working out, so had the bladder elevation 20 years ago and never had to have it done again. Paid by my socialized benefits, OHIP, by the way smoothy,

    Tick
  • Jan 12, 2011, 09:55 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    A bladder elevation (simple enough surgery) can eliminate the leakage problem which occurs while running, any physical activity. I never had that problem during sex, but did while working out, so had the bladder elevation 20 years ago and never had to have it done again. Paid by my socialized benefits, OHIP, by the way smoothy,.

    tick

    You got lucky... hell of a waiting list for most things according to my wife's relatives in Montreal, glad it worked for you.

    I know its an embarrassing situation for most women, (it would be embarrassing to most guys too, not just ED) and they don't like to discuss it.
  • Jan 12, 2011, 12:46 PM
    tickle
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    You got lucky.....hell of a waiting list for most things according to my wifes relatives in Montreal, glad it worked for you.

    I know its an embarassing situation for most women, (it would be embarassing to most guys too, not just ED) and they don't like to discuss it.


    Funny, no waiting list in Toronto or Peterborough areas.

    Tick
  • Jan 12, 2011, 02:05 PM
    jenniepepsi

    I personally wouldn't waste the money, risk the surgery, waste the recovery time, to 'fix' something so simple lol.
  • Jan 12, 2011, 03:52 PM
    tickle
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jenniepepsi View Post
    i personally wouldnt waste the money, risk the surgery, waste the recovery time, to 'fix' something so simple lol.

    Recovery time is minimal, it is in and out the same day, jennie. There is no risk of surgery if you or your doctor don't have health concerns.
  • Feb 22, 2011, 09:59 PM
    kathy15212
    "SQUIRTING" Such a fine topic! LOL I would have never thought I'd be in the middle of this. I'm a very active and athletic 40 year old woman. Recently divorced and have gotten into a very rewarding relationship. I have never experienced squirting ***... I thought getting wet and enjoying an awesome night of pleasure was enough. My new boyfriend has made that completely different. Today he texted me the comment "there is a circle of your DNA the size of a coffee table on my sheets". I have multiple orgasms... always have... for some reason he makes them more intense... hence the squirting I never did to this extent before.
  • Feb 23, 2011, 09:27 AM
    jjwoodhull

    Squirting is a very real thing and is definitely not urine. I realize that it is hard to believe if you have not experienced it. The fact that women can release large amounts of liquid (for me usually about 1 cup) repeatedly proves that it is being manufactured by glands. If it were coming from the bladder, your bladder would eventually empty or, at the least, the volume would decrease with each orgasm.

    To the poster - I sometimes feel dehydrated after sex. I have made an effort to drink more water and it has definitely helped. If you are having trouble urinating, you should speak to your doctor.

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