I had a feeling that would be his response. I am glad you finally 'told' him and got that out of the way. :)
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I had a feeling that would be his response. I am glad you finally 'told' him and got that out of the way. :)
Oh no, anything but a kid! I don't want kids.Quote:
Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck
How would it be a big deal later? If I did have a kid I can still breast feed. Or do you just mean that if things get that serious he might really decide that it was an issue to him?
The scars are visible if you are looking for them and I'm in bright light, but if I'm naked and in dim light I can't even see them, or bright light and one is not specifically looking for scars, they will not notice them.
Its your body. No need to explain or apologize. As I said in a earlier post, dated a girl with an incredible chest job... good proportion, nice shape... you simply could not tell by touch or taste ;)... yes, a little more structure when laying down.
Curves are nice. A great rack is great fun. But any man who is so one dimensional as to focus on this one part of the many fantastic parts of the woman's body... he's looking for an excuse to complain.
You know this guy from some time back. I'm a litle worried about how you are trying to catch him into saying its OK or not without addressing it head on... I mean... at some point it sounds like you are just stocking up quotes to use against him if it comes out and he makes noise about it.
Why not be straight up? If he is judgemental are you just waiting... trying to have him too vested to care to fight?
Again... confidence is sexy. I've no problem with your choice. I agree that a good job can be pretty damn good.
But capsulation happens. Rupture happens.
Confidence is also reflected in trusting those you care about to know the truth and to be supportive. If he cannot be comfortable with the fact your fantastic chest is surgically enhanced... k. well. I don't get it.
Just an update: I broke up with this guy finally and for other reasons not related to anything physical.
However, I learned a lot from talking about this with everyone on here! Thanks!
Good luck in the future. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by bidingmytime
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Originally Posted by bidingmytime
Good luck in the future.
Always good to learn something.
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