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The bottom line here is that his wife seems to have lost interest in their sex life... [quote/]

I completely agree. Until the op'er answers the questions I asked, I just don't know how to answer with any sense of perspective.

She introduced the idea. Fine. There's so much more going on than that.

Time for the OP'er to expand upon this issue... or we are just wasting time guessing what the real situ is.

I guess I don't get it and that may be why I am so unhappy and confused. I will say no more so that this person get the assistence they are looking for. Don't know how to frame a question around my feelings though. Thanks for the dialogue, it helps more than you know.

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Originally Posted by Allie602

I guess I don't get it and that may be why I am so unhappy and confused. I will say no more so that this person get the assistence they are looking for. Don't know how to frame a question around my feelings though. Thanks for the dialogue, it helps more than you know.

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Read your posts and condense them into one with any other information that might help us understand what your needs are and use that as your question (remember to start a new thread). You might want to post on the Marriage Board instead of Adult Sexuality if your needs are more general relationship. We are here to give you what help we can.


On the topic: I hope the op is communicating with his wife and may someday return and at least give us an up date.

So...

Until the OP'er answers back... I'm thinking this thread should stay a little quiet?

If you have a question, open your own post.

Until the OP'er engages this thread, it should be dead by self restraint... pretty frickin damn please?

Tell her to quit being selfish and just put your foot down... Tell her it would satisfy you... :p

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Originally Posted by Ruben5

Tell her to quit being selfish and just put your foot down... Tell her it would satisfy you.... :p

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So she should do anything he wants her to do just to satisfy him? Not wanting to have a threesome is selfish? Are we living in the 1700's when women had no rights? :rolleyes:

This is horrible advice. No one has to do something they're not comfortable with and if her husband can't understand that she's no longer into having a threesome, that's his problem, not hers.

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Originally Posted by Ruben5

Tell her to quit being selfish and just put your foot down... Tell her it would satisfy you.... :p

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This is a very different attitude from the one you seem to hold in your own thread or are you trying to make a joke out of someone else's problems?

Hi Alte,

Sorry I can't give you positive it will not let me, yes you responded very well and I agree with you.