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Originally Posted by Justwantfair

Well factor into the equation an escalation of feeling and love for you.

When you love someone, it is hurtful to watch them or know that they desire anyone other then yourself.

While he may have been ok with it while you were dating, his increase of feelings means he wants a faithful relationship with you.

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Thanks for your input. Very helpful in how I look at it now.

If being with other women is important to you and he isn't okay with an open relationship I'm not sure he's the guy for you. You have to know what you're willing to give up when you're with someone. Is women one of them? You can also explain to him that having sex with other women in no way decreases your love for him, it may in fact make your sex life with him better because you are happier. If you make it known that you won't love him any less by being with someone else it might help him, or give him a little extra special sex on top of the regular stuff.

Open, this is a really old thread and the OP hasn't been back since July.

Please don't post on old threads, it bumps them to the top of the list and really, they don't need to be bumped unless the OP has something more to add.

Thanks.

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