Believe that if you wish... if your Husband goes out and gets some on the side because he can't sleep with his wife alone because he can't even get any alone time in the bedroom I warned you.

Kids don't NEED a lot of things... and a lot of things they are given anyway creates maladjusted kids that are overly clingy that are raised to believe they are entitled to everything they want. I come from parents with two LARGE families... which means I have a LOT of cousins.(over 40 first cousins for example).. and the only maladjusted cousins I have were with the ones whoes parents did and gave WAY too much their whole lives for them.

But heck... they are your kids and whatever happens is your responsibility, for good or bad.

What the entire thing comes down to is this:

You NEED to talk to your husband and figure out what HIS issues are.

If you can't talk to him about sex, what in the world makes you think that sex is going to just be there whenever you want it?