alritey so I had "the talk" and it was not as uptight or as awkward as I was afraid of. Pretty much I told him how I've been feeling about the whole thing, and he was honestly concerned. He promised to lay off the porn and masturbation. I also emphasized that I would know if he didn't follow through in a laughing tone, but I'm pretty sure he got the gist of what I was saying and that was it. He almost jumped at the idea. So, yeah, he's okay with the open discussion, and haha we have yet to find out the outcome.

Im relieved to just get it off my chest and move on. He loves me enough to stop for a while, and that's what matters. Thank you all. :)

and I'm not sure where Synnen came from but I was in a hurry and had to type fast. Really that was completely random and had nothing to do with the discussion at hand and every one knew what I meant.
Thank you <3

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Originally Posted by riotgurl1819

and im not sure where Synnen came from but i was in a hurry and had to type fast. really that was completely random and had nothing to do with the discussion at hand and every one knew what i meant.
Thank you <3

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I came from out of the left field of moderation.

The rules of the board--and PARTICULARLY the Adult Sexuality forums--state that no chat speak is to be used.

As a moderator, I ASSUME that you are 13 and don't know better when you use chat speak. It doesn't matter that everyone already knows what you're talking about--it's childish, and I don't put up with it on the boards I moderate.

Okay. U got it.

***you got it haha sorry