If you define cheating as exchanging bodily fluids then this isn't cheating, Mr. Clinton. As far as the real world goes, "You show me yours and I'll show you mine" counts as a sexual experience. If he's worth keeping, and you thought so once, you need to have a SERIOUS talk.

It is possible there is nothing more going on that two adults showing each other what they have. but it also is possible there might be more going on... we don't know this either way without knowing what was being said between them. Now actual cheating is not good nor condoned, and I won't support that if its happening.

Though I do think things like this escalate to cheating, the idea in a relationship is to solve the issue right?

So why does he need to do the whole show me yours I'll show you mine thing? Because the chic on the internet is telling him how incredibe he is. Guys are just like women, they need to hear that they are sexy, desired, wanted and needed.

But his reason may be totally different. Seriously ask without accusation, Right now it is really a small issue it will hurt a lot more later if you two don't communicate

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Originally Posted by Meredith1978

So why does he need to do the whole show me yours I'll show you mine thing? Because the chic on the internet is telling him how incredibe he is. Guys are just like women, they need to hear that they are sexy, desired, wanted and needed.

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Meredith is right about the chic on the internet telling him how incredible he is... Guys ARE just like women, they need to hear that they are sexy, desired, wanted and needed... take a good look at how YOU inter-act with your husband... how often do you tell him he is all of those things..?.

You COULD talk to him about why he does this on the internet, but I highly doubt you would get the true answer... do you think he would have the courage to say " Well, gee, she makes me feel like a man....she says I'm hot......she says I am a good man...."... No, he will make up some lame excuse to give you what he thinks will get you off his tail so he can continue doing this... so be smart... YOU be the chic on the internet... at home... do and say all the things to him that SHE does...
Then he won't need her...

Either way no matter what his intentions
Tell him that this woman is getting the attention you should be getting so how would he feel if you started doing the same with men on the internet and sending them naked pictures of you.

I have never seen any good come of guys *cheating* on the internet. He can say it is not cheating but it is giving this other girl the attention he should be giving you therefore you are cheated.