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  • May 6, 2009, 12:04 PM
    mudweiser

    My suggestion would be to save up the money for a boob job.

    If you have a job start saving, if not get one and save up for it.

    Make a consultation appointment with a GOOD doctor. Find out how many malpractices he's had, find out his credentials and everything else that comes into play when your looking for a plastic surgeon.
    http://www.smartplasticsurgery.com/basics.html

    Once you have the money saved up, went to your consultation, it's now decision time. Spend the money on new breasts OR a trip OR a whole new wardrobe?

    Just a thought...

    Sarah
  • May 6, 2009, 12:11 PM
    artlady

    Because of your age,you should also take in to consideration the issue of breastfeeding when you become a mother.

    There are certain augmentation procedures that offer you a better chance of being able to breastfeed.Some augmentation patients find they cannot.

    There is also the possibility you may need another augmentation in the future.

    Best bet ,arm yourself with knowledge and make sure you do your homework when looking for a doctor.
  • May 6, 2009, 12:27 PM
    chrissymarie

    When will you be in public with out your push up bra or bra? If your fine with yourself and your lover is fine with your appearance too there is no reason to change. He's most likely one who will see you naked. That all you should be worried about pleasing. Because like you said you like them and they are cute!

    The only time I think you should get plastic surgery is if it is a deformity, severely intereferring with your confidence , or it will improve your professional life (net income).
  • May 6, 2009, 11:38 PM
    DSM521

    Listen, I have always told my wife "a bad set of real ones are better than good set of fake ones".

    Before my wife had our kids she had the most picture perfect playboy rack you could imagine. But I really have to say I like her mom boobies more than I liked her perfect boobies.

    I know that's just me talking, but if your man says he likes yours and has no problem with yours then try to take comfort in that. I know that sometimes that is not enough for a woman, and she has to do things for herself. But this is a big decision. Think wise.
  • May 7, 2009, 12:50 AM
    shazamataz
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by chrissymarie View Post

    The only time I think you should get plastic surgery is if it is a deformity, severely intereferring with your confidence , or it will improve your professional life (net income).

    I'd never alter my body to improve my job... I'd rather earn my position rather than sleep my way to the top.

    And if you are talking about models... you can always tell who has had work done, I prefer natural beauty over barbie dolls.
  • May 7, 2009, 11:26 AM
    chrissymarie
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by shazamataz View Post
    I'd never alter my body to improve my job... I'd rather earn my position rather than sleep my way to the top.

    And if you are talking about models... you can always tell who has had work done, I prefer natural beauty over barbie dolls.

    No I'm not talking about sleeping with anyonme to get to the top... you may prefer natural beauty but un fortunately the commercial world prefers work done. Especially play boy models and such. Also for exotic entertainers getting your boobs done just increases your money (it's a given).
  • May 7, 2009, 11:28 AM
    NeedKarma
    So is that your goal - pose naked for money or dance naked for money?
  • May 7, 2009, 11:34 AM
    chrissymarie
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    So is that your goal - pose naked for money or dance naked for money?

    I'm already an exotic dancer and already have posed nude. I've had no work done to my body but breast implants have always been a constant suggestion from the people I work with . And I'm a perky 34 c!
  • May 7, 2009, 12:38 PM
    shazamataz

    I don't mean any offense by this chrissie but that's something I could never do...

    Different strokes for different folks I guess :)
  • May 8, 2009, 11:09 AM
    arby808

    Small breasts a great more than a hand full is a waste
  • May 8, 2009, 11:12 AM
    mudweiser
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by arby808 View Post
    small breasts a great more than a hand full is a waste

    Not many would agree.

    Small breasts are great too don't get me wrong but big boobs are also great.

    Everyone has their own preference.

    However, the size of your chest shouldn't define who you are.

    Sarah
  • May 8, 2009, 12:54 PM
    smoothy

    I don't let any go to waste... large or small, its all good.
  • May 9, 2009, 04:51 AM
    Catsmine
    I'm an American male. I like little, big, pointy, round, firm, saggy, young, old, fresh, chewed, ANY breasts. I do not pay attention to ads, celebrities, or stereotypes. I can guarantee that yours are beautiful, sight unseen. Your self-image may need work, but healthy mammary tissue doesn't.
  • May 9, 2009, 08:10 AM
    shazamataz

    Had to spread the rep catsmine but very good answer :)
  • May 10, 2009, 05:01 PM
    rxnarunner
    I have to say I think you are waay too worried about what your boyfriend thinks. I wouldn't be so concerned about his opinion. He's sounds forthright and what YOU want should be what you are basing your decision on.

    I for one have implants. When I was younger I was a 34B and nicely built. I swore I would never get anything fake. 4 children later and done breastfeeding each one, I had no breast tissue left. I lost the weight and my body looked great EXCEPT for my boobs. I did some research and found a wonderful doctor. I did not have a lift, only implants. He filled out my excess skin with the implants, which ended up being a size 34DD. However, I look like a large C or D. they feel real and look real. They move real.

    Not all implants end up looking fake and just because women decide to get them doesn't mean we are shallow or insecure. I just wanted to have my womanly figure back, I couldn't go back to a 34B. I do suggest you are young and to wait until after you have children before you make that decision.

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