I'm telling you right now, if a guy I was dating wanted ME to have a threesome with HIS ex, he'd be gone before the sentence hit the floor. No lie. He wants permission to cheat? I don't think so!

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Originally Posted by Rich11111

In my opinion threesomes should only ever be attempted if you are single, or have had an open relationship for a while and are comfortable with that lifestyle.
Wanting to involve his ex in this shows that he clearly still desires her at least on a sexual level.

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I don't think you have to be single to have a threesome.
Usually it is a couple and a third single person.
You don't have to have an 'open' relationship either, so long as there is trust there.

It should only be done in a very trusting relationship and never with an EX!

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Altenweg agrees: Something you want to tell us Shaz? ;)

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Lol I admit to having a foursome :o me, my partner and our best mates (who are married)
We discussed the rules extensively which is why it never got awkward (and trust me there were a lot of rules! Lol)

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Fuzzball_Kara agrees: Good advice. Interesting adventure I bet that was.:D

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Lol yeah, it's not something I would rush out and do again straight away but it wasn't half bad either ;) :)

I've had threesomes before with my boyfriend but only with girls not with other guys. I never have been left out because we put down ground rules before anything ever happened. Though I would have to say the threesomes were my idea origionally and never included anyone's ex. Bringing ex's into new relationships is poison in my opinion