I have watched porn and I have always wondered while you are watching the couples in the films thrusting for a thirty minute period, do you wonder if they don't get sore in the private parts?

I recommed that you leave the porn alone and work on your fantasy life to make you hot and bring you to orgasm.

Have goals in developing your sexuality naturally... porn (and vibrators) are very addictive and add nothing to your sexual imagination... you really want your sexuality based in your early personal excitation, and your imagination to grow and grow so you can be creative with your sexual expression.

Female sexuality isn't just about "getting off"mechanically, it is the basis of a woman's identity, her sexual expression and creative impetus, her womanliness and wisdom. :)

All that good stuff is lost to sexual addiction if it develops.

Best wishes, :)

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You sound faily normal to me... and a bit open minded as well as you do look at some porn. And interested in more than plain vanilla sex even if you wouldn't consider most of it...

Consider yourself perfectly normal.

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Originally Posted by letmetellu

I have watched porn and I have always wondered while you are watching the couples in the films thrusting for a thirty minute period, do you wonder if they don't get sore in the private parts?

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You get thirty minutes of jackhammer sex thanks to the editing room. Live people can't maintain that speed for that long in real life... Just like hollywood, what you see on the screen isn't what it appears to be.

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Originally Posted by Choux

I recommed that you leave the porn alone and work on your fantasy life to make you hot and bring you to orgasm.

Have goals in developing your sexuality naturally.....porn (and vibrators) are very addictive and add nothing to your sexual imagination....you really want your sexuality based in your early personal excitation, and your imagination to grow and grow so you can be creative with your sexual expression.

Female sexuality isn't just about "getting off"mechanically, it is the basis of a woman's identity, her sexual expression and creative impetus, her womanliness and wisdom. :)

All that good stuff is lost to sexual addiction if it develops.

Best wishes, :)

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I don't think using a vibrator or watching porn (unless it's an addiction) leads to sexual addiction. Do you have a source?

Thanks again to all those who posted! I did bring it into the bedroom and it was SO fun! Thanks for all the advice! :D:D

Good for you, well the two of you. :-)

I am a woman too and I love watching porn. I just wish my boyfriend would watch it with me. He chooses to watch it by himself.

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