Ask Me Help Desk - Normal sex duration

I can't see ever pulling a 5 hour one even if I tried... we just have too much to do for that.

No this didn't involve recovery time... no multiple pops... wife gets sore when you push into those numbers anyway then where is the enjoyment.

Its about quality... not quantity. Pushing for mulitples clearly moves it into the quantity for quantities sake area forgoing quality.

But it did involve a fair amount of self control. After all without that very, very few guys are going to pull those numbers. How did I know the times... I've always had an alarm clock on the nightstand next to the bed. Hard not to see it.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

I can't see ever pulling a 5 hour one even if I tried....we just have too much to do for that.

No this didn't involve recovery time......no multiple pops...wife gets sore when you push into those numbers anyway then where is the enjoyment.

Its about quality...not quantity. Pushing for mulitples clearly moves it into the quantity for quantities sake area forgoing quality.

But it did involve a fair amount of self control. After all without that very, very few guys are going to pull those numbers. How did I know the times... I've always had an alarm clock on the nightstand next to the bed. Hard not to see it.

Okay, smoothy, you know that I like you, but this is just getting silly. Seriously, the 4 hour versus 5 hour thing is laughable. Also, the "pushing for multiples" and "quantity for quantities sake" argument is ridiculous. The opposite argument to your "orgasm minimizing quality" comments could be made just as easily. I just don't see the point. What does someone else know if they weren't there? This conversation and almost one-up-manship has gotten weird. If you want to claim an award, you can pretend that you won it because I don't believe anyone else is partaking in the competition.

The reason I posted was to share in the building of facts, opinions and personal experiences in answer to the question, and hearing what others have had to say on the subject was certainly interesting. If this thread turns back to enlightening information, it would only be to its benefit. Comparing the pleasure felt by one's own penis to the pleasure felt by their neighbor's penis would be pointless.

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Originally Posted by linnealand

okay, smoothy, you know that i like you, but this is just getting silly. seriously, the 4 hour versus 5 hour thing is laughable. also, the "pushing for multiples" and "quantity for quantities sake" argument is ridiculous. the opposite argument to your "orgasm minimizing quality" comments could be made just as easily. i just don't see the point. what does someone else know if they weren't there? this conversation and almost one-up-manship has gotten weird. if you want to claim an award, you can pretend that you won it because i don't believe anyone else is partaking in the competition.

the reason i posted was to share in the building of facts, opinions and personal experiences in answer to the question, and hearing what others have had to say on the subject was certainly interesting. if this thread turns back to enlightening information, it would only be to its benefit. comparing the pleasure felt by one's own penis to the pleasure felt by their neighbor's penis would be pointless.

No one upmanships here, I couldn't care less who or how many would beat that (or even come close). More power to them... I hardly consider more than an hour normal by any means on the average. Nor have I ever pushed the wife or any previous girlfriend past the point they expressed being comfortible. That would be just plain dumb as well as selfish. Its more in the spirit of what someone is capable of if one takes the initative and has the will. Its all about knowing ones self and striving for the best you can be. And having heard the stories here from so many women I think that its something far more men should strive for. True that everyone has limitations... but how does someone learn what they are without trying... The opposite end is guys that think of only one thing... getting off and going to sleep. Not giving a damn how little time that might take. And yeah, if a guy doesn't try most if not all will get off before the average woman even gets warmed up.

I've done the whole, "Hi hon, you want pancakes for breakfast?" and ended up into a 10-minute furlough, and I've also done the whole, "::heavy breathing:: ::checks time:: HOLY COW! IT'S 6AM?!? I HAVE CLASS IN 2 HOURS!!!"

... so... avg... is... relative.

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Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny

I've done the whole, "Hi hon, you want pancakes for breakfast?" and ended up into a 10-minute furlough, and I've also done the whole, "::heavy breathing:: ::checks time:: HOLY COW! IT'S 6AM?!? I HAVE CLASS IN 2 HOURS!!!"

...so...avg...is...relative.

That's why I never haf 8 am clases

That can depend on many factors -- age, health, how much sleep you've both had recently, are there kids in the house? do you want it to take a long time?. There's no set formula.

I can usually go 7.8 seconds sometimes as much as 8 full seconds.

Ladies, I'm single and available.