I share the same feelings with your boyfriend of being done too fast... the more you have sex, the longer he'll last, and the more you'll enjoy it... there is nothing wrong with masturbation, or any position. My girlfriend shares the same feelings with you. I have talked to several women, and many of them do masturbate... it normally takes some time to get that out of them because they are ashamed of it... the truth is that there is nothing to be ashamed of, it's perfectly natural... exploring yourself is the best way to know what you want/need. I actually researched via porn how to preform cunniligous on my girlfriend, and that works great for warming her up, so if you can get your b/f to do that, then have sex you should be golden :)

Yes, what he say is right. Enjoy is the most important this as time go by u will feel MORE COMFORTABLE. Don't stress because u never orgasm now don't not mean that u have something wrong. You just need more time.

Hope u will succeed some day. All the best to u.

Lots of foreplay makes great sex vibrators toys oils add to the pleasure to he needs to discover your sensual spots and understand sex is not just getting himself off but making you soaking wet and shaking before he starts and you and he will have not only a orgasm but and eruption of true extasy you both deserve

poesia. Yes u are right. I strongly agree with u..

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Originally Posted by roze18

I have been reading up about it a lot b/c if you have read my other question i haven't been able to get an orgasim for 5 months of being sexually active with my boyfriend.

Now the question. Does masturbating actually work? or is buying a vibrator a way to go? or am i just giving up to quick?

i am at a loss b/c i want to have fun and i don't want my boyfriend to get down on himself about being done to fast and not being able to satisfy me.

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Well there are medicines for erection it could help him stay horney and active longer time