Things seem much better since I talked to him, we've cleared the air and know what has been on each others minds. Think we got into a rut living together and forgot the romance, and rest! Got into a routine which we need to work on.

We've had a lot of other issues and with him working so hard it's no surprising, he's talked to me and explained he's been stressed so we'll see how it goes from here on

I don't believe this has anything to do with the "Kids" issue as he has been very supportive.

At least I've spoken to him about it and highlighted the problem so we can address it. Which we will do!! Hehe :)

Thank you all for your advice! Much appreciated x

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Originally Posted by Choux

Seems like since you do everything for him, you are his substitute mother.....he doesn't want to have children with you at this time. He probably knows he is too immature at some level.

Note, he doesn't have any outside interests as you portray him....sports, hobbies, all kinds of stuff.

Why rush to have children?

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He plays two kinds of sport and we both play sport together, I can understand the mother substitute but he and I are both old fashioned in our up bringing. I've been brought up to do it, he's been brought up to have it done for him. We'll get there, I don't think it's quite so black and white as I originally thought. But... only time will tell!

We do love each other very much, it's clear to everyone. We've just got a few things to work through.

Thanks for advice x