kp2171 thank you for the comment, you put perfectly it into words I had a hard time describing.

"sex isnt all there is about a relationship, but sex isnt just about an orgasm. that she was distant, unaffectionate, unattentive... means she was neglectful AND ok with that."

"time to move on."

I"ts going to suck for a time... but you did what was right for you and for her. she was always going to feel "put upon" and you were always going to feel neglected."

"for ex... im very, very receptive to physical touch. it grounds me. calms me. centers me. its how im wired. i also value words of affirmation. i tend to try to act through physical touch and acts of service... meaning i like to be physically close and i try to complete tasks (work on the house, success in business) to make my lover feel good."

Definitely time to move on... this short a time into a relationship everything should be rosey. If she's like this now then how bad will she get later or if you are married knowing she has you by the short hairs if you go to find release somewhere else. And by that I mean take you for everything you have.

Its going to be rough in the short term... but it will take far less time to get over her than you have been living together.

Do it for your own mental health and happiness.

I'm not saying she's a bad person... just the wrong person for you.