I told him to think of a big fat slob while we're having sex, but he said he can't. Lol.

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Originally Posted by zawatska

I told him to think of a big fat slob while we're having sex, but he said he can't. lol.

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Tell him to imagine making love to Rosie O'Donnel...

Or Roseanne Barr...


Or think about work... its all about finding something to think about say 1/2 of the time ( he will be thinking about two things at once)... not ignore you but distract his focus enough to make him last longer than a 14 year old boy that sees his first naked woman.

Hahaha. Sounds good to me. I like Roseanne! The comedian? But yes, Rosie O'Donnell is quite disturbing looking. And lmao at him lasting longer than a 14 yr. old boy! Hahaha thanks for the laugh

When Im about to climax and want to prolong it I close my eyes and do mathematical patterns, force myself to have mental images that bring me out of the physical sensations Im experiencing and some times, depending on the girl I'm with have her smack me in the face, I hate it so it takes my mind off the pleasure. For a couple of years now Ive been able to hold off pretty much indefinitely but I put a lot of effort into this. In between partners I also never masturbate quickly, I always take a least a half an hour or more, I think this is key because when I started this is when I put myself over the top and really never had to worry about being able to hold off again. Actually quickies are hard for me now(but Im always wearing a condom 100% of the time)


patterns I use commonly are 1+2=3, 2+3=5, 3+5=8, 8+5=13, or Ill start with two random numbers 4+25=29, 25+29=54 etc etc. The mental images I use are either me doing something like fixing my car, welding, mowing the lawn pretty much anything Ive done lately but its always a process never just still images, picturing other people never worked for me either, it either resulted in me losing my erection or me losing my concentration and blowing my load.

People Ive told this to usually respond with "thats insane" but it works for me and I love and thoroughly enjoy my sex life.

I can't fathom why some guys don't like giving oral to their women. If the girl is shaved and clean Ill do it until I can't open my mouth from the muscles in my jaw swelling and cramping.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

or think about work....its all about finding something to think about say 1/2 of the time ( he will be thinking about two things at once)....not ignore you but distract his focus enough to make him last longer than a 14 year old boy that sees his first naked woman.

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+1

Thanks DuBas. I'll have to tell my man that tonight lol. We've tried him thinking about other women, but that didn't work. He just laughed lol. Hes very good at math, so I wonder if that would work! Lmao. We have yet to try condoms every time we have intercourse. And he does give me oral. But it gets me so excited, I want the whole thing!