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  • Jul 11, 2008, 05:43 AM
    JuJuFruit
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by number1tank
    ok, so my wife was out on the town with some girl friends. She kissed a girl because I asked and sent me a picture.

    Since then I have wanted her to (do more) with another woman. Possibly bring another woman home with her.

    First aspect of this question... What are some tips to look for if she would want to do more with another woman,

    2nd part of the question, how do I make it happen...

    Anyone with experience with this?

    Yes, fantasy, but....


    Have you thought about the possible downfall to this?

    Perhaps your wife getting her pleasure from someone other than you? Or how you wife will react to seeing you with another female?
  • Jul 11, 2008, 05:59 AM
    posey_84
    A marriage is about TWO people...
  • Jul 11, 2008, 09:25 AM
    Choux
    Doing what is easy, and not what is right, is a real road to ruination for you and for your young wife!

    What is easy, a quick fix for a complex situation, always has great allure---an attractive "solution", easy, requires no thinking, instant gratification!!

    You know, you don't have to act on every impulse you have. :D
  • Jul 12, 2008, 11:25 AM
    Choux
    CM, I just looked up ruination on my on-line dictionary... surprise! It is a word. :D
  • Jul 12, 2008, 11:47 AM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    What? Jibberish, I say! Yet, I agree! Ruination it is!
  • Jul 13, 2008, 03:08 PM
    agireland
    You could really end up in a bind. What if she discovers that she would rather make love with another woman than with you? The situation could easily backfire on you. I have had several women co-workers over the years who decided to give it a try (after having decided that all men were bums) and none of them ever went back to men after that. It is a dangerous chance to take.
  • Jul 14, 2008, 12:38 AM
    KateBell88
    You do realise that threesomes don't actually end up being sex between 3 people, it usually ends up 2ppl have sex and the other person watching, so unless you're wanting this other woman to watch you 2 then either you or your wife will technically be cheating.

    Plus you would have to be willing to bring a man into the bedroom for your wife (theoretically or otherwise) in order to avoid appearing selfish

    Plus if you ask you wife she will most likely think she is not satisfying you and your looking for more

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