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Originally Posted by talaniman

Ask him straight up, about his sexual availability. As a man honest and straight forward, is what gets my respect, but you must evaluate your own man individually. Only you know what makes him defensive. Just be nice about it. Let him know your willing to work and compromise to deal with the issues to benefit you both. Just curious why this wasn't brought up before?

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Thank you for your RATIONAL response! I'm sure I'll see you on here again in the future!

I see major incompatibility here. He may have medical reasons for his low libido or psycological ones. I get edgy if I don't get it every day... but will be honest and say I could not make it a 3 times a day routine easily. And no its never a 10 minute thing.

Moving in together isn't commitment... its convienience to a guy. Commitment is getting engaged and planning to marry. Don't confuse the two.