Ask Me Help Desk - Very Hairy

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Originally Posted by orgless

so? you do the whole lot dont you! lol

actually no... wife asked last winter so I said why not... but SHE has to do my back...

She gave up on that thought after only a few weeks. Was too much work for her. Told her the porcupine stage wasn't acceptable. Its smooth or normal and shaving my back every few days was an agrivation to her.

Below the beltline is smooth for her... she, like me hate stray hairs in our mouths. Besides, she keeps it up for me so I keep it up for her benefit as well. I asked her when we first got married and she willingly did it, a few years later she asked me why I didn't and said did you want me to? She said yes so I said then just ask. So I do it for her.

But I'm not as bad as some guys with body hair. I'm only medium hairy and it's a lighter brown not black so its not as obvious. Plus its more upper body, my lower body just isn't as hairy naturally as my upper body.

People by nature are selective especially when it comes to sexuality. There are other physical and intellectual traits and characteristics that are important.

However if the natural follical issue is all that you are focused on then perhaps you need to refocus your attention to something else when choosing partners. There are many more males to select from. Just be aware that even if you do end up selecting a "hairless" man, he may also be lacking all those other important qualities.

Do yourself and him a favor... let him go to someone who can appreciate him. Drop the idea of imposing your dislikes by asking him to change for you.

Are you hoping for a long term with this guy or do you want to be especially attracted to him physically for a first time thing? It appears that you have issues with his physical appearance. If this were to become the "long haul", would you expect him to become hairless for the rest of his life?? If this is the only thing that is keeping you from being totally attracted to this man then you have to decide if it is worth pursuing or not. In my personal experience, I have known women that I was very attracted to EXCEPT there was one little thing that wasn't my cup of tea and that prevented me from becoming involved. I think it is only fair and honest. That's my opinion...