Well, let me begin by saying that my personal preference for very satisfying sex (and my partner and wife agrees) is the non-penetrative oral (usually a 69), or the mutual touching, playing with and masturbating each other kind.
After a few drinks at the end of the day, just looking at each other makes it occur to us whether its going to be lots of 69-ing later at night, or whether it'll be watching porn together with genitals bare, wide open, and touching each other until spilling for me and convulsive orgasms for her. We prefer to watch porn with proper audio. And then we drift into sleep in each other's arms until an encore in the morning!
I (we!) firmly believe that ****ing (penetrative sex) is only for procreation.
