What is "trisexual" and what do you call a straight man having gay sex? I finally got proof of my husband's cheating with other men by putting a program on his laptop called "Spector Pro" maybe you need to try this as well. At least you'll know exactly what he's saying in these chat rooms. My husband said he was married but on the down low & that his wife was clueless. I would still be clueless had he not given me genital warts. Now no one wants me. You have to do whatever it takes to protect yourself. You could be exposed to HIV and a whole assortment of STD's. I ignored signs for years, don't be stupid like me. Good luck, be brave, be strong!

It sounds like he is on the down low or just bi. I don't think any straight male goes on a gay site just because. Leave him alone or if you don't mind sharing him with other guys stay.

You need to leave him alone because he sounds gay or bi, but he should be honest with you if he is. There nothing wrong with being gay or bi but he should be truthfull with those he love and I agree with the last post he might be down low and it was a mistake he got caught don't take any chancing. Anyhow if he is with you want he doing on a chatline I left my boyfriend because of that because it's a form of cheating in my book.

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You need to leave him alone because he sounds gay or bi, but he should be honest with you if he is. There nothing wrong with being gay or bi but he should be truthfull with those he love and I agree with the last post he might be down low and it was a mistake he got caught dont take any chancing. Anyhow if he is with you want he doing on a chatline I left my boyfriend because of that because its a form of cheating in my book.

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I'm not exactly in agreeance with this one, some men (and women) go to chatlines because they are bored-just because they go chatting, does not make them hate/dislike you, they may want to explore something a little more exciting-who wants to eat Mcdonalds every day, sometimes we might want Subway-to use a food analogy.

If you can't deal with this "cheating" then fine, but this is not a rule to be followed to the letter.

Strange the OP hasn't been back to comment, or ask questions.

[QUOTE=Xrayman]I'm not exactly in agreeance with this one, some men (and women) go to chatlines because they are bored-just because they go chatting, does not make them hate/dislike you, they may want to explore something a little more exciting-who wants to eat Mcdonalds every day, sometimes we might want Subway-to use a food analogy.

My ex called the chat line and he stated he was bored when I confronted fine, but it's a difference if your going on to meet people and proclaiming to be single and if your in a committening relationship and want spice in your life speak to your partner because there many things that can be done. Who said we where eating Mcdonald every night because if I remember correctly that was not the problem there was nothing wrong in that area, lol.

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My ex called the chat line and he stated he was bored when I confronted fine, but it's a difference if your going on to meet people and proclaiming to be single

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Sorry but I thought I just stated that. That he was bored... anyway. Claiming to be single is a different matter-that information was not disclosed BY YOU before when you asked the question.

I really don't think his sexual orientations is the real issue, but lack of honest communication is. Honest communication, can at least let you make a decision based on fact, and not lies and inuendo. It may be in your interest, to make your decisions that serve YOUR best interest and not his.