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  • Jun 27, 2008, 12:06 AM
    javed333uk
    Yes I do.it has got nothing to do being married.it has its own pleasure.I m married for the last ten years.it adds to your libido
  • Jul 12, 2008, 11:02 PM
    sammyjk1
    Can't you go blind doing that?
  • Jul 12, 2008, 11:37 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by sammyjk1
    Can't you go blind doing that?


    Yes, you can. I'm kidding. ;)

    Another female perspective here. I don't watch porn, I have watched it, it just doesn't do anything for me.

    Does hubby masterbate, yes. He works the split shift at work. For 2 weeks he works daytime hours 7am - 4pm and then two weeks 4pm- 12:30am. For the two weeks he's working nights, we don't have sex during the week, he leaves early, the kids are still up, there's no lock on the bedroom door, when he gets home I'm already in bed asleep. So yes, it can get frustrating, and he will "relieve" himself. So do I. We both talk about it, and we're both okay with it, he won't be able to request to be put on full days for at least another 5 years, so, we do what we have to do.

    We have a wonderful relationship, and I have to say, sometimes not being able to be with each other for 5 days makes being together that much more special. The tension has built up throughout the entire week, when the weekend comes, we go all out. :)
  • Jul 13, 2008, 09:21 AM
    JuJuFruit
    I too will answer for my hubby. We watch Porn together, he watches porn alone. He doesn't masturbate as we have an active sex life. Its not his thing... "why should I do it, when you have something better"... LOL His response, when I just asked him if he did... lol
  • Jul 13, 2008, 03:14 PM
    agireland
    I think pornography is dangerous. I know of several friends who became so aroused by it that they could no longer get aroused by a real woman without getting watching porn first. I have looked at it before when I was younger and single but I have always thought it would be disrespectful to any woman I was in a relationshiop with, sort of like I was suggesting that she wasn't good enough. As for masturbation, it can be a useful tool to delay your orgasm with your wife, but I wouldn't make a habit out of going solo.
  • Jul 14, 2008, 10:59 PM
    confusedbyitall
    Yes and yes.

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