Hmmm, where to start? You can't change her past, neither can she.

Not a d@#* thing has been "taken from you"... are you kidding me?!

The young obsess about virginity, "firsts" and all that crap.

If you can't let it go, let her go. PERIOD! You do NOT get to punish her for her past and yet choose to be with her.

Personally, I'm thrilled my loving wife of 8 years was laid before I met her. She's great in bed. She's a wonderful lover. Thank GOD she had other lovers before me... she knows what the hell she's doing and does it well.

And thank GOD I don't fret and worry about who taught her what, where, and when.

Your attitude is normal for a young man. In time, I'm guessing it'll change.