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Originally Posted by angelica1999

why my husbend ask for anal sex all time

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What I miss in all replies here is the possibility of a female to learn how to control muscles around the vagina that gives a male more feeling during penetration. Specially as - if done properly - increases the pleasure experienced by the female also. :p
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Just stating "I do not like it" may be your preference (and even your right), but is not a solution to the mentioned desire for anal :eek: sex by the male. Investigating WHY many males like that is at the bottom of the solution.
Finding an acceptable alternative to anal sex (using different sexual techniques) is one of the solutions women should try to develop.
Just find a sexual therapist near you for more information.
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Originally Posted by excon

Hello, again:

Here's how you do it RIGHT! In the first place, you don't ask for it. You train her to want it.

I've always got my hand involved in whatever I'm doing anyway..... I'm on top. I'm reaching around and under her to check out the action. As I move around, my hand and fingers naturally slide over her anus. I linger for a moment just resting my finger there. Then, as I'm slowly thrusting, I use my finger to run around the rim of her anus. After a few times of this, I slowly insert just the tip of my finger in. Of course, it's wet and my finger slips in easily. A little later in the relationship, I find my finger embedded deep and she's begging for it. Of course, things progress from there.

The thing about this, is that it's VERY, VERY mutual..... And, it isn't something that happens in a night. It doesn't happen in a week. Nor, should it. But, when it does, it's gooooooood.

excon

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Nicely Said.. . And it works too

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Originally Posted by excon

Hello, again:

Here's how you do it RIGHT! In the first place, you don't ask for it. You train her to want it.

I've always got my hand involved in whatever I'm doing anyway..... I'm on top. I'm reaching around and under her to check out the action. As I move around, my hand and fingers naturally slide over her anus. I linger for a moment just resting my finger there. Then, as I'm slowly thrusting, I use my finger to run around the rim of her anus. After a few times of this, I slowly insert just the tip of my finger in. Of course, it's wet and my finger slips in easily. A little later in the relationship, I find my finger embedded deep and she's begging for it. Of course, things progress from there.

The thing about this, is that it's VERY, VERY mutual..... And, it isn't something that happens in a night. It doesn't happen in a week. Nor, should it. But, when it does, it's gooooooood.

excon

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No way... I'm on to that one already!
BTW - there is a HUGE difference (hopefully) between a finger and a penis.

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Originally Posted by whyohwhy

No way....I'm on to that one already!
BTW - there is a HUGE difference (hopefully) between a finger and a penis.

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EXACTLY! That's why you START with a finger, and move up to more fingers and THEN go to the penis.

STARTING with the penis is where so many men go wrong, and it's why so many women hate anal sex.

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Originally Posted by whyohwhy

No way....I'm on to that one already!
BTW - there is a HUGE difference (hopefully) between a finger and a penis.

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Rofl

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Originally Posted by Synnen

EXACTLY!! That's why you START with a finger, and move up to more fingers and THEN go to the penis.

STARTING with the penis is where so many men go wrong, and it's why so many women hate anal sex.

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Even as a guy... I'm in perfect agreement with that. Many years ago after we got married my wife told me if I can show her how to do it without pain then she was up for it... well, she loves it now and even askes for it so that goes to show it can be done, and it can be very ejoyable from the woman's perspective and not just a guys. And she will not do anything that hurts.

It's not that it hurts. I have experienced it when it didn't. It just didn't feel good and I actually felt sick to my stomach afterwards from all of the thrusting. My boyfriend at the time felt all bad... said that he just wanted to try something different. But, that we didn't have to do it. Good thing... cause I wasn't going to ;).

I actually enjoy a little finger, teasing and licking (really feels good)... but, not the penis in my butt. Was that too much information? ;)

Licking!

I need a red alert level 6 erection before I can even consider doing such a thing.

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Originally Posted by whyohwhy

It's not that it hurts. I have experienced it when it didn't. It just didn't feel good and I actually felt sick to my stomach afterwards from all of the thrusting. My boyfriend at the time felt all bad...said that he just wanted to try something different. But, that we didn't have to do it. Good thing...cause I wasn't going to ;).

I actually enjoy a little finger, teasing and licking (really feels good)....but, not the penis in my butt. Was that too much information? ;)

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Perhaps the parking garage wasn't exactly vacant when he tried to pull the suburban into it?

That can cause that sort of feeling. We always tend to limit it to within a few hours after visiting the bathroom. If the colon isn't empty or close to it depending on his endowment (in effect the beter endowed he is the less room there will be for... the other stuff) because there are several sphincters and not just the one you wipe it can't be pushed back in and as a result you will get exactly that feeling you describe. So you physically can not be ready for it around the clock.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

Perhaps the parking garage wasn't exactly vacant when he tried to pull the suburban into it?

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GREAT ANALOGY! :eek: But, I wouldn't have called it a suburban... more like a pathfinder.

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Originally Posted by whyohwhy

GREAT ANALOGY! :eek: But, I wouldn't have called it a suburban...more like a pathfinder.

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Give it a try one night when you both aren't rushed... about 2 hours before the appointed time go sit on the throne and make sure the garage is empty. Then without rushing give it another try. Make sure he takes it slow and easy (you tell him how fast, and how deep) and you might find those feelings aren't there any longer.

Well then... I am going to have to wait until I get a new car... because right now I have nothing to park. :( Maybe my next car won't want to park in the garage. :p