You can get HIV from doing ANY kind of sexual behaviour.

If you don't know THAT, then maybe you shouldn't be answering sexual questions, since your advice could KILL someone.

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Originally Posted by amanda16mom

ok this is a 2 part question.....PART 1: my fiancee enjoys anal sex EXTREMELY, weve tried a few times but it jus doesnt seem to get any better for me. i let him go as long as i can make myself but i would like some tips on relaxing alil more cause we've tried everything we could possibly think of and we even resorted to online tips. i would jus like to find a way to make this easier on me and allow him to go alil longer possibly eventually for me to even enjoy it............PART 2: weve tried using lubes but the only brand is KY (liguid not gel) and it dries up quick and if it gets inside my vangina it burns and im instantly turned of and in pain, does anyone think its just the liquid or is it the brand? any tips are greatly appreciated for both questions.

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If you have tried online tips, then you would know that not only is lube important but so is the time taken. What I mean, is the time taken in preparations. You may have seen a lot of porn on anal sex, maybe not. But what is important is the way the anus is prepared for the ensursion of the penis... size is never a problem. First you must gentleyrub the outer rim of the anus with a finger, then continually applying lube or spit, which ever is handier. Rubbing in a sentual and circular motion is the key, for the anus to relax. Not only must you do this for awhile, playing with the or area is also a key. This helps with not only relaxing the woman, but also eases the tension on the anus. You may not know this but, psychologically your mind is always focused on everything around you. So, to enjoy anal sex, you must play with the sensually, while rubbing and gentley fingering the anus for about 15-20minutes at a time. Continually easing the mind and relaxing the anus muscles for eventual penetration.

Once this is done, ensertion of the penis must be gentle and slow. The anus maybe relaxed at this moment, but is still vulnerable to damage if ensertion is too quick, deep and hard. Remember you're doing this for enjoyment and each other, so take the time to
Prepare and anal sex will definitely be on your to do list, next time you're planning on the
Different ways of having sex.

Until next time, enjoy.