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  • Jan 29, 2008, 06:52 PM
    jasondbel
    However, life that is so not true. Ive had girls devour my private. They could not get enough. I don't know what planet you are from paparazzi. You're obviously from the computer world.
  • Jan 29, 2008, 06:54 PM
    jasondbel
    Comment on LifePaparazzi's post
    That is crazy. Women love it. If they were not in the mood its because they did it so much and needed a break. You must not be all that attractive because they lied to you,
  • Jan 30, 2008, 08:15 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jasondbel
    However, life that is so not true. Ive had girls devour my private. they could not get enough. I dont know what planet you are from paparazzi. Youre obviously from the computer world.



    You stated above in your comment that you have been following me around, thread to thread. And you have.

    Why?

    And the only opinions in the World are not yours -
  • Jan 30, 2008, 08:27 AM
    Marydoll
    I like to give it too... I must say that it is a turn off for me if he asks for it though!
  • Jan 30, 2008, 08:41 AM
    sassyT
    No, I have no enjoyment what so ever. It makes me gag and it hurts my neck but I do it anyway because my husband loves it.
  • Jan 31, 2008, 06:23 PM
    LifePaparazzi
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jasondbel
    However, life that is so not true. Ive had girls devour my private. they could not get enough. I dont know what planet you are from paparazzi. Youre obviously from the computer world.

    Well, that's twice now you have been rude to me jasondbel. Hey, I gave MY opinion from MY part of the globe. Sorry you don't like it. But just because I disagree, does not make me ugly or a prude. So, get a grip here, this is a forum to discuss things, not a battleground for your insults, please. Maybe you are just not mature enough to talk about these subjects.
  • Jan 31, 2008, 06:26 PM
    LifePaparazzi
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by sassyT
    No, i have no enjoyment what so ever. It makes me gag and it hurts my neck but i do it anyway because my husband loves it.

    Hear hear, that's how I feel about it. It could be that some women have a better oral structure then others and lower gag reflexes. So, I guess this question might be a toss up, with half yea and half nay. ;)
  • Jan 31, 2008, 06:56 PM
    kp2171
    OK. Lets end this once and for all...

    Some women get off giving a man oral, some women think its worse than cleaning the toilet.

    As for what it does for the woman... it can range from getting him off and sexually empowering her to disgusting her and making her want to vomit.

    Hey... isn't life great?

    Just got to find your own kind of weird.
  • Feb 1, 2008, 05:56 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LifePaparazzi
    Hear hear, that's how I feel about it. It could be that some women have a better oral structure then others and lower gag reflexes. So, I guess this question might be a toss up, with half yea and half nay. ;)

    You can work past that gag reflex over time by a process of desensitization. Every day for a few moments you get it to a position where you would gag... hold it as long as you can then pull away. Or in a smooth motion go past that point and out before you get a chance to gag.. You only need to do this once or twice each time... over a period you will find you can do it deeper and longer without being as quick to gag. Eventually you will have control of the reflex... but you have to do this with him just laying there. You need to be in complete control as to when, how fast and how deep for this to work. Its 90% mental.

    As to sore neck? Try different positions. Everything from being towards he feet, to along side him, and depending on your weight to laying on top of him in a 69 position. One or more of those will be a more comfortable position for you, they all obviously can't be.

    Between you and him depending on if it point to the sky, the ground or to the left or right will effect which might be best for you.

    Half of it is finding a comfortable position...
  • Feb 1, 2008, 06:03 AM
    Tuscany
    To each their own. But I personally love the power and connection that I feel when I am pleasing my husband. It is amazing to see a 6'2" guy totally putty in my hands.

    I love him, all of him, so why not make all of him feel good.
  • Feb 3, 2008, 08:25 AM
    closefriend29
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy
    My wife does.....I don't even have to beg for it. Besides she told me so. In fact I rarely have to even ask for one.



    Thank you.
  • Feb 3, 2008, 08:32 AM
    closefriend29
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LifePaparazzi
    Well, that's twice now you have been rude to me jasondbel. Hey, I gave MY opinion from MY part of the globe. Sorry you don't like it. But just because I disagree, does not make me ugly or a prude. So, get a grip here, this is a forum to discuss things, not a battleground for your insults, please. Maybe you are just not mature enought to talk about these subjects.


    You are right - we are here only to share - not to make comments on others experiences
  • Feb 3, 2008, 08:34 AM
    ISneezeFunny
    It's like asking the question: do women like goat cheese?

    ... some do. Some don't.

    Why goat cheese? I have no idea... quite possibly because my room currently smells like goat cheese...

    I got to clean.
  • Feb 15, 2008, 10:52 AM
    Starrviolet
    I enjoy giving my husband oral also.. Its partially because I know that I can do what makes him feel awesome! And knowing that I give him that kind of pleasure really turns me on... I get completely excited!
  • Feb 15, 2008, 09:56 PM
    FallenFromGrace
    I don't like receiving oral sex, (spare me from the line "It hasn't been done right.") but I adore giving it. A little self-manipulation while going down on a man, and I can get off every time!:D
  • Feb 16, 2008, 08:00 PM
    azkad79
    It is something strictly prohibited by religion, you donot have to do immoral things like having oral just for your satisfaction; everybody should learn how to fight against his/her satisfaction; if someone asks us to do an immoral act, only for satisfaction, first think whether it is good or bad morally, then commit yourself to that act; DO NOT FORGET WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS, NOT ANIMALS
  • Feb 16, 2008, 10:52 PM
    FallenFromGrace
    While I appreciate your religious views, I don't share them. <Woof Woof>
  • Feb 16, 2008, 11:03 PM
    Alty
    Yikes, I almost don't want to answer this but here goes. I personally do not enjoy it, but my reason may sound strange to allot of you. Someone posted that they enjoyed it because it made them feel power or put them in a powerful position, I feel exactly the opposite. I do have control issues (I was raped when I was 18) and cannot be in a position that makes me feel like I have no control, and that's how I feel when giving oral. Oh, just so I don't sound like an old fuddy duddy, anything else goes, just not oral. Boy, did I just say too much?:o
  • Feb 17, 2008, 10:45 PM
    l12
    I like it when I have control.and they taste good... Just a note to guys... please be clean... you don't want them to hurl at the smell...
  • Feb 19, 2008, 08:55 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by l12
    I like it when I have control.and they taste good...........Just a note to guys.......please be clean.........you don't want them to hurl at the smell...........

    Applies to women as well... man the odors that can come from there can gag the dead. :eek:

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