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  • Aug 15, 2007, 07:52 AM
    cloud89
    Hey guys thanks for leaving answers, this is helping me and obviously flexel an aweful lot. Glad to know I'm not the only guy with this problem. Im sure I have boxer briefs around here somewhere lol so I will defo wear them. Thanks again people. Now a jockstrap, can you actually buy them in other places and not just america, like the UK? Lol. Because I might try that too.
  • Aug 15, 2007, 07:56 AM
    talaniman
    Sport shops, as they are really athletic supporters for playing sports, but they work in all situations.
  • Aug 15, 2007, 08:39 AM
    Flexel
    @cloud I don't beleave anyone who say they don't experance this or don't have problems we are all the same we go through same things different stages and length of times but yea thanks all for the help and tips... once again I can't sat I know what a jockstrap actually is I've heard of it many of times and proberly do know what it is... but not by its name :S:S

    Thanks
  • Aug 15, 2007, 11:29 AM
    smoothy
    To me jock straps would not do the job... They didn't provide just the right type of support for this. But its possible it would work for others.

    As far as what a jock strap is... think of it as a thong that doesn't have the single rear strap but two that come around the side. Sort of like a brief without the rear panel. But typically they are cut in a certain manner to hold an athletic cup. Which if you don't know is like a helmet for the family jewels.
  • Aug 15, 2007, 11:52 AM
    margarita_momma
    I have seen guys in jock straps before and honestlly, they are not the most attractive articles of clothing. The two straps that wrap around the sides just look odd and you will have a lot of extra room in the front where the cup usually goes so it will defeat the entire purpose of it being tighter there. My advice would be to stick with the boxer briefs or regular briefs. ;)
  • Aug 16, 2007, 01:03 AM
    Flexel
    OK, so we are still sticking with these briefs or boxer brief's am going to have to get myself a pair as I cnat find anything of the sort in my drewer's so will have to get some pairs..

    Thanks for the information and help guys!!

    But is there no way I can traing this arousal as in learning to stop it or nothing... I can control it for so long but if girlfriend touch's me in right spot or touch's my turn on parts bam it goes??
  • Aug 16, 2007, 04:43 AM
    talaniman
    margarita_momma, I have seen guys in jock straps before and honestlly, they are not the most attractive articles of clothing.
    Jock straps are for protection and support, not fashion and are worn beneath you draws. Only you know your wearing them.
    The two straps that wrap around the sides just look odd and you will have a lot of extra room in the front where the cup usually goes so it will defeat the entire purpose of it being tighter there.
    Trust me, tight around this sensitive area can be painful, the jock supports the ball sack, so when you get a woodie its always up, and not stuck down a leg, where standing will hurt like a mofo.
    My advice would be to stick with the boxer briefs or regular briefs. ;)
    Sorry they don't make 'em like that. Don't take this personaly, but I couldn't resist as I know that you have no experience carry a load around all day, especially one that shifts from time to time, unexpectantly. As a fellow gets older his control improves a lot, and he can avoid the pain and embarrasment, of walking around with an erection. :eek:
  • Aug 16, 2007, 06:33 AM
    margarita_momma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman
    If you pack it down, arousal will hurt, but get a jock strap, and not only get support, but will insulate against your jeans as well.



    The reason I said its not very attractive is because you are suggesting they wear it when the go out or when they are with their bf/gf. I am just saying from a woman's perspective, if I was about get frisky with a guy and he takes his pant off and he is sporting a jock strap, I would think that is a little weird.

    Trust me, tight around this sensitive area can be painful, the jock supports the ball sack, so when you get a woodie its always up, and not stuck down a leg, where standing will hurt like a mofo.

    Sorry they don't make 'em like that. Don't take this personaly, but I couldn't resist as I know that you have no experience carry a load around all day, especially one that shifts from time to time, unexpectantly. As a fellow gets older his control improves a lot, and he can avoid the pain and embarrasment, of walking around with an erection.

    I know that I have no experience carrying a load and I imagine it would hurt for a guy to be wearing tighter undies all day. I just thought maybe briefs would be better because they are more attracting looking. I know this may sound like a stupid question but, can't guys pull it upwards if they are wearing snugger briefs instead of letting it trail down their leg? LOL. This might be a really uncomfortable position but I have seen some guys wear it like that when they get hard and its a lot less noticeable. I could be way off! :o
  • Aug 16, 2007, 06:40 AM
    talaniman
    No your not, as older guys do make adjustments, but a jock helps when it would be embarrassing for a young guy to have a woodie, as in church or school. You just never know. LOL.
  • Aug 16, 2007, 06:40 AM
    smoothy
    Actually briefs cradle it like you hand would, and as far as I'm concerned its not in the least bit uncomfortable, I'm 45 and did this since high school, and yeah if I see a hot lady at the beach it still tries to do its own thing.. We aren't talking strapping it down like Transvestites do. But simply pointing it downward and gently cradling it with briefs since that's a difficult position for it to become erect in... and in fact is impossible if its in the right position. If you pull it upwards there is nothing to keep it from getting hard if you are the young easily excitable type. He is and I was as well at that age till I figured it out in high school... trust me few guys want that to happen in public. Unless they are hung like an Anaconda that is. And those tend to be the guys that strut around and rub it in.
  • Aug 18, 2007, 11:03 PM
    Bkegg
    Hey quick little add into this first your right about the boxer briefs they fit good and willie tucks down nicely. I can have a full erection and still hardly see it though my pants when he's tucked away. Nobody is out there wearing cowboy pant that are plastered on. Box briefs are great.

    The solution to the problem may also solve the problem as a whole. I use to wear boxers until I ran into the same problem I started wearing boxer briefs it went away. So I returned to my boxers (for only one day), it happened again. So I sat down and found at what the problem was. It's those dang silky soft boxers that rub justa little and my 17 years old brain would start reeling and bam. Full erection smashed up against the top of the school desk. Who was talking about uncomfortable? Try the penis on the bottom of the desk thing, that is torture.

    Ok to sum it up.

    Problem: Soft boxers and horny minds

    Solution: Box brief <--- Once you so brief, it's such a relief (hheh I just made that up)

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