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Originally Posted by Rizi

He went inside me all the way maybe two or three times but that was it we did not have sex, it was terribly painful but i did not bleed apparently, so now what am I a virgin or not how would i know exactly, because he said he did not feel anything.

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I would like to here from the male partner in this situation. I will bet you a dollar that he damn well believes that he had sex. And since she said he went all the way into her two or three times and then stopped makes me wonder if he could be a premature ejaculator. And I also hope he used a condom.

Someone who doesn't know this kind of stuff shouldn't be having sex.

Your not a virgin by normal standards anymore. But that doesn't mean anything your not a slut you don't have to do it again if you don't want or am not sure and if he says. It only gets better he's right but if you felt bad after he pulled out that won't get better trust me I am a 19 year old guy and I had sex at 12 with a 19 year old girl ( my youth pastors daughter) and it doesn't get better, after a while that is how people have meaningless sex it is so pointless they feel no happy or sad just same old same old.

Penetration is what constitutes loss of virginity.

Technically speaking, you're no longer a virgin. Sorry to hear you're first time didn't live up to your expectations.

Yeah he took your virginity. Sucks when it happens like that doesn't it?

For anyone responding to the original post and expending time and energy on it, you might want to consider that the original poster, Rizi, only posted once and has not so much as logged back onto this site since

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It's not that further answering the post isn't valuable for knowledge and discourse, it's just that it more-than-likely will have no meaning for the original poster unless she returns.