Originally Posted by QTcantgetright
i need to know why my dont want sex. we;v been maryed for 11 years. and when we do have sex i do all the work he dose nothing but lyse there he come in from work and and sat around until is time to go to bed .but before he goose to bed he eats sweet at night and fills his stomach so full that it makes tired . he takes zanax and (V) THERE A PAIN KILLER you no what i mean .i dont get sex from him maybe one or two times a month he is mean to me he call me names he puts me downand them when he feel bad about what he did to me he said hes sorry he tell me he loves me but i dont get it why is he like that . when i ask him for sex he gose off on me put me on a guilt trip over telling me about how early he gets up and then sometimes there will be a fight because of me asking for sex im 47 hes 49 he just truned 49 please help whats wrong