[college6624]

I made the mistake of accepting 1 beer from my new boyfriends parents and was surprised with an EtG test 22me hours later. Has anyone passed in this timeframe? Please help

[JudyKayTee]

I am sure people have - what was the mistake? Drinking the beer? Drinking the beer so close to testing?

Is this a possible probation violation?

This is not the first mistake you've made. You obviously aren't learning anything from your "panic." https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/medical-science/help-will-pass-etg-746158.html

And how about you'll never do "this" again?

My Dad was killed by a drunk driver. Maybe the next time that driver will be you because there is SOME reason you aren't allowed to drink. Maybe you should fail, violate, take the "panic" of drinking before testing out of your life.

I'm suggesting that the other AMHD members who are thinking of answering you read your prior posts and save their time.

[college6624]

I am sure people have - what was the mistake? Drinking the beer? Drinking the beer so close to testing?

Is this a possible probation violation?

This is not the first mistake you've made. You obviously aren't learning anything from your "panic." https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/medical-science/help-will-pass-etg-746158.html

And how about you'll never do "this" again?

My Dad was killed by a drunk driver. Maybe the next time that driver will be you because there is SOME reason you aren't allowed to drink. Maybe you should fail, violate, take the "panic" of drinking before testing out of your life.

I'm suggesting that the other AMHD members who are thinking of answering you read your prior posts and save their time.

First of all.. I did make a mistake in the past. I considered myself lucky for only hurting myself. But I've paid... many times over. My life is ruined and I've lost friends. I tried to start a new relatiinship without his parents knowing my problems. Im in drug court and have been tested once every 3 months randomly. I know I screwed up. But don't you judge me. Tell me you've never had anything to drink though alcohol has apparently destroyed your life as well. You have no idea the price I had to pay

[JudyKayTee]

Sorry, I can't feel sorry for you and whether I'm a social drinkiner or not has nothing to do with your problem. Alcohol has never presented a legal, relationship or other problem for me. Don't compare yourself to me.

Unless the boyfriend's parents pointed a gun at you I don't understand why you just can't say, "I'm sorry, I don't drink" or whatever else it would have taken to refuse the beer.

You can't even own up to being unable to say "no" when it comes to alcohol for whatever the reason.

When you posted for the second time that you were in a "panic" over your alcohol use you asked to be judged. Members were pretty hard on you the first time. It made absolutely no impression on you, obivously.

And I don't understand - alcohol or drugs or rock and roll ruiined your life and so you're curing that by drinking when you are prohibited from drinking and then finding excuses for your behavior.

Yes, you should be in jail.

[college6624]

Sorry, I can't feel sorry for you and whether or not I'm a social drinkiner or not has nothing to do with your problem. Alcohol has never presented a legal, relationship or other problem for me. Don't compare yourself to me.

Unless the boyfriend's parents pointed a gun at you I don't understand why you just can't say, "I'm sorry, I don't drink" or whatever else it would have taken to refuse the beer.

You can't even own up to being unable to say "no" when it comes to alcohol for whatever the reason.

When you posted for the second time that you were in a "panic" over your alcohol use you asked to be judged. Members were pretty hard on you the first time. It made absolutely no impression on you, obivously.

And I don't understand - alcohol or drugs or rock and roll ruiined your life and so you're curing that by drinking when you are prohibited from drinking and then finding excuses for your behavior.

Yes, you should be in jail.

You are right. I should be. Sorry for your time

[JudyKayTee]

No problem - serve the time, get out without probation, do what you want and when you want.

It's as simple as that.

[Alty]

Instead of answering your question, I think it's time to address your issue, don't you? You obviously can't stay away from alcohol. It would have been very easy to say "thanks for the offer of the beer, but I don't drink". Then you wouldn't be facing this dilemma.

Maybe you should consider getting help for your drinking problem, instead of constantly screwing up and then worrying about the consequences after the fact. Cut out the disease and you won't have to worry about a cure.

So, despite your other posts, and this one, I'm offering to help you. Not to pass this test, but to deal with your addiction.

Is that something you would consider?