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  • Jan 18, 2007, 01:44 PM
    Synnen
    Allheart... you make me laugh JUST when I think I need to start crying. Thanks, doll!

    CBW... is that Millie in your avatar? What a cutie! I can see her covered in spaghetti and chocolate!

    Doc, Dopey, Sleepy, Happy, Grumpy, Sneezy, and Bashful.

    I agree... get rid of Happy and substitute Hungry.

    Also get rid of Bashful and substitute Crazy.
  • Jan 18, 2007, 01:47 PM
    curlybenswife
    Oh trust me after a while of dealing with arsehole customers you become very blatent with them.
    At that point I was not worried of the customer was upset or not they were thick lol

    Allheart my sweet keep to that 0 I'm so flipping close to caving right now millie has been hell these last two days fighting sleep.

    Standing with you all loves you xx
  • Jan 18, 2007, 01:50 PM
    Synnen
    Don't Cave! You can do it!

    I'm here holding your hand... and sending you hugs. I know you can do it!
  • Jan 18, 2007, 01:52 PM
    Allheart
    <<<<<< holding on tightly to our girl CBW and keeping her on that top branch. :D

    Does Millie sleep better at night when she fights sleep all day? But by then you must just be exhausted.

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Synnen
    Allheart...you make me laugh JUST when I think I need to start crying. Thanks, doll!

    CBW...is that Millie in your avatar? What a cutie! I can see her covered in spaghetti and chocolate!

    Doc, Dopey, Sleepy, Happy, Grumpy, Sneezy, and Bashful.

    I agree...get rid of Happy and substitute Hungry.

    Also get rid of Bashful and substitute Crazy.

    I love it Synnen. Yes no more bashful, bring on Crazy.
  • Jan 18, 2007, 02:00 PM
    curlybenswife
    Yep that's the minx right there with my friends son's glasses on she is quite the case.

    And no if she has been fighting all day then we will have hell tonight too I'm like the walking dead now lol
  • Jan 18, 2007, 02:03 PM
    Allheart
    Oh Laura,

    She really is such a cutie. Can you get a break to just take a little walk by yourself? Clear the head a bit?
  • Jan 18, 2007, 02:03 PM
    Synnen
    My parents used to take us for a drive when we were like that. Mom says we zonked out about 2 blocks from home, and they just carried us in an put us to bed.
  • Jan 18, 2007, 02:39 PM
    curlybenswife
    Ha the car has no effect on her she is just a very highly strung child lol
  • Jan 18, 2007, 02:42 PM
    Synnen
    Takes after her daddy, right? ;)

    I have no suggestions for you... no kids means I have no idea what to do with them when they're like that :(

    Hope she's nicer to you tonight
  • Jan 18, 2007, 02:58 PM
    Curlyben
    Cheers Synnen, I'm not highly strung *twitch*
  • Jan 18, 2007, 02:59 PM
    curlybenswife
    Well its 9.50 pm here and I've just managed to get her to go to bed 2 hours later than normal this time last night she dropped off and woke again 5 more times its all to do with her large teeth cutting either that or she is turning into a devil hehehehehe

    I haven't caved only because I can't be arsed to go buy any lol so I'm still on a big fat 0 and sat here chewing toffees like a loon say good bye to my teeth and hello to the dentist lol
  • Jan 18, 2007, 03:07 PM
    Allheart
    Oh Laura so glad you didn't cave. Who cares about the reason... ya didn't :)

    Gosh, I don't know what you do either, don't have any little ones myself. Is there something you can put on the gums?

    You must be one tired non-smoker:D
  • Jan 18, 2007, 03:10 PM
    Synnen
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Curlyben
    Cheers Synnen, I'm not highly strung *twitch*


    Of course not. Absolutely. /nods sagely
  • Jan 18, 2007, 03:11 PM
    curlybenswife
    LOL I will send her over you can both have a treat and look after my loony daughter tee hee

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Synnen
    Of course not. Absolutely. /nods sagely

    Tee Hee don't be encouraging him ;)
  • Jan 18, 2007, 03:21 PM
    Synnen
    She'd go right to sleep for me. We'd be busy all day, doing things like going to the zoo and playing in the snow and running a marathon and playing with the kitties and basically I'd just wear her out. Because that's all I know how to do.

    If that didn't work, I'd resort to cartoons. Yeah. Because we KNOW that kids just fall asleep watching TV, right?
  • Jan 18, 2007, 03:25 PM
    curlybenswife
    LOL I hate to burst your bubble but this child of ours won't sit and watch TV she is just to busy to sit still she doesn't stop from the moment she wakes
  • Jan 18, 2007, 03:27 PM
    Synnen
    Shhh! Let me have my dreams!

    (Good job on not smoking, by the way, regardless the reasons!)
  • Jan 18, 2007, 03:27 PM
    Allheart
    Hmmm. What would I do with the little darling. I would give her lots of hugs and kisses. Dry her tears as she would be missing her mommy and daddy so much :(. hand her over to Mr. allheart, who probably would give her a nice cold beer (as that's what he knows), and the little darling would fall fast off to sleep. (just kiddn just kiddn... hee hee)

    But I would have to dry her tears. She would miss you guys way too much and I think Mom and Dad, would be pretty darn sad too.
  • Jan 18, 2007, 03:36 PM
    curlybenswife
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Synnen
    Shhh! Let me have my dreams!

    (Good job on not smoking, btw, regardless the reasons!)



    Hehehehehehe oh the joys you have to come ;)

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Allheart
    hmmm. What would I do with the little darling. I would give her lots of hugs and kisses. Dry her tears as she would be missing her mommy and daddy so much :(., hand her over to Mr. allheart, who probably would give her a nice cold beer (as that's what he knows), and the little darling would fall fast off to sleep. (just kiddn just kiddn....hee hee)

    But I would have to dry her tears. She would miss you guys way too much and I think Mom and Dad, would be pretty darn sad too.

    And knowing millie she would probably quite happily sit there and drink that beer too lol
  • Jan 18, 2007, 03:49 PM
    Allheart
    LOL... oh then Millie and Mr. Allheart would be the best of buds. Hee hee.

    Three cheers another 0 day for all.

    Hip Hip Hooray :)
  • Jan 18, 2007, 04:20 PM
    curlybenswife
    HEHEHEHEHE We rock :)

    Lets hear it for another day huh I'm off to bed guys sleep tight xxxxx loves you
  • Jan 18, 2007, 04:21 PM
    Allheart
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by curlybenswife
    HEHEHEHEHE We rock :)

    Lets hear it for another day huh im off to bed guys sleep tight xxxxx loves ya

    Luvs you lots. Get good rest & sweet dreams.

    Many hugs.
  • Jan 18, 2007, 04:28 PM
    Synnen
    Sweet dreams to you! May you get to sleep all the way through the night!

    (grats on another perfect day!)
  • Jan 18, 2007, 06:43 PM
    SINGLE4
    Hi ladies!

    When I got to work this morning I jumped on AMHD right away and posted a comment on this thread. After I posted... I logged out and did some work. Right before noon I tried to log in again and... :eek::mad: WEBSENSE BLOCKED ME!! The company I work for does that every so often. They go through there system and see what everyone is looking up on the internet and if they don't like what you are looking up... they will block it!! WHAT WOULDN'T THEY LIKE ABOUT THIS SIGHT:mad: :eek:... LOL!! Can you tell that I am upset?!

    Anyway, I am at my parents on the internet and I wanted to let you all know since tomorrow IS MY BIG DAY OF QUITTING and you yous may think I "went over the edge":eek: since I won't be able to chat with you all! I will check AMHD on the weekends and speratically during the week (my parents live 15 miles away so not real convenient!)

    You know that it is not fair that I now have to give up two additions... cigs and AMHD!!

    Well... good luck to you all and I've been keeping you all in my prayers! I KNOW THIS TIME WE CAN ALL DO IT!!

    MUCH LOVE TO YOU ALL AND KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!!

    HUGS... :rolleyes:
  • Jan 19, 2007, 01:54 AM
    curlybenswife
    Good morning my fellow brancheeee's ;) I think we averaged 6 hours sleep lol don't think ben got that much though and he has gone to work the poor sod.

    Single we are here for you whenever you should need us goodluck tomorrow xxxxx

    Good Morning Allheart hope your ready for another smokeless day :)

    Synnen and chipper too stand tall my lovely ladies xxxxxxx
  • Jan 19, 2007, 02:01 AM
    Allheart
    Good Morning Laura and all.

    Glad I caught you before running off to work.

    Happy Friday everyone! Yes, we will stand tall together :):)

    Here's to another 0 day.

    Lots of hugs to all.
  • Jan 19, 2007, 02:17 AM
    Capuchin
    Keep it going guys!

    For every one you smoke, Harley gets denied a biscuit.
    Think of the poor puppy!
  • Jan 19, 2007, 04:04 AM
    Allheart
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Capuchin
    Keep it going guys!

    For every one you smoke, Harley gets denied a biscuit.
    Think of the poor puppy!!


    Well that is does it for me Cap. :D

    Can you post a picture on this thread, so we all can see that sweet adorable face of Harley's. Once everyone lays eyes on the little guy, no way will any of us do anything to jepordize Harley getting a well deserved treat.

    Cap, great incentive :) Thanks bundles for the support.!
  • Jan 19, 2007, 04:24 AM
    curlybenswife
    Cap Hehehehehe don't you be cruel to that dear little puppy or ill message him and tell him to sit on your head hehehehehe

    Allheart my sweet you will get shot for logging in at work ;) but I like it ;)
  • Jan 19, 2007, 05:12 AM
    Capuchin
    Look at that face, surely only the cruelest of souls would deny him biscuits.

    http://www.megat.co.uk/~lionhead/Capuchin/puppy.jpg

    (The server I'm hosting the image on seems to be down at the moment, hopefully it will be back up soon)
  • Jan 19, 2007, 05:14 AM
    curlybenswife
    Giggle I'd spoil that lovely little soul giggles he is just to cute I thnk millie might like him too tell you what shall I send you millie for a holiday and ill have Harley I think that's a fair swap ;)
  • Jan 19, 2007, 07:23 AM
    Synnen
    Morning you!

    Single... that stinks! How awful! We're thinking of you, though... you know you can be right up here with us!

    Awwww... that is the cutest puppy EVER! I definitely can't have a cigi now, because I wouldn't deny him his biscuit!
  • Jan 19, 2007, 07:32 AM
    curlybenswife
    Morning Synnen not having the best day ever here today we picked up our beloved eldest cats ashes this afternoon to say I'm upset is an understatement.

    So guys if I don't post again till later its because I'm feeling sorry for myself and finding ways not to smoke.

    Lots of love to you all xxxx
  • Jan 19, 2007, 07:36 AM
    Synnen
    Oooh... that's so hard! I offer you my deepest sympathy and respect.

    Many hugs and warm thoughts sent your way.
  • Jan 19, 2007, 07:43 AM
    Allheart
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by curlybenswife
    Morning Synnen not having the best day ever here today we picked up our beloved eldest cats ashes this afternoon to say im upset is an understatement.

    So guys if i dont post again till later its because im feeling sorry for myself and finding ways not to smoke.

    Lots of love to you all xxxx


    Have I told you lately... that I just love U.

    Many many hugs.
  • Jan 19, 2007, 07:53 AM
    chippers
    Oh laura, I'm so sorry to hear that.. my heart just broke. 2 weeks before christmas I had to do the same thing to my cat Tabs. So I know how it feels. My youngest is still dealing with it and took it hard. We bought him a special christmas present where we can make a garden memorial plaque with her name and we can decorate it. We'll be planting special flowers for her and the boys have the winter to decide which ones they want to plant.
    just keep in your mind (and your very big heart) you did what was best for her. Keep in mind she was a valued family member and kept her from suffering. You're doing a great job with the 00 cigis. I'm proud to know you. Not to mention thank you for giving me the chance to chat with all of you. :) :)

    Good morning all GODDESSES!

    I hope everyone had a good night. I woke up with a headache and a battle worthy enough to raise the roof off the house. We had a little snow here in jersey yesterday and it sprinkled a little last night. The boys thought they had no school today and refused to budge out of bed. I was in no mood to reason so I went directly to threat. If they didn't get out of bed and get ready they were going to school in their pjs. For my oldest it was an especially bad thing since he took his shower in the morning, his would be wet.. . they got up quickly. They knew mom was in no mood. My head was pounding. I took motrin and within 30 minutes I felt better and apologised for being so nasty. They'll get pizza for dinner tonight.
    the cafeine detox has made me a little (okay a lot) moody. And tired. My doc said to keep up the good work and that this would pass soon. So, like you ladies, I'm sticking with it. I know I'll feel better in the long run.

    all heart, that puppy is precious. I fell in love with those big brown eyes. No one could deny him a buscit.
    syn, I know I'm evil that's part of my charm. Stand tall. Her nastiness has nothing on your kind sweet nature.
    I'm going out today and getting a hair cut. My reward for weaning off caffiene. As you ladies should do the same. This completes a week. So you have everyright to reward yourselves.
    as for you single, Post when you can, we'll be here. Reward yourself too for getting serious. Remember each person as to quit in their own way. It's a personal choice. The fact you made it, makes you deserving of self indulgence.

    I LOVE YOU ALL chocolate roses to everyone.

    LOVE< CHIPPERS
  • Jan 19, 2007, 09:33 AM
    curlybenswife
    Sad beyond belief... millie and ben are asleep on the bed I'm thinking that's a mistake as she won't want to sleep later...
    Me I'm sat here just cuddling one of our other kittys and thinking I'm lucky to have had sam as he was such a lovely mild temperd cat and he had 16 good years even if 6 were only with us.

    Thank you for your messages I'm touched.
    Still on a 0 day but I want to sleep the rest of today away that's me being wishfull thinking...

    Lots of big hugs and love to you all.

    Xxxxxxxx
  • Jan 19, 2007, 09:38 AM
    Allheart
    Oh Chippers I just love it - Goddesses

    And I just adore each of you. So proud and grateful to be going through this with all of you.

    Special hugs to CBW for getting us all together.

    Single4 - that really does stink, but you don't worry, we still will be here, no matter when you pop in.

    Just love being on the top branch with all of you :):)

    CBW, Synnen, Chippers, Single4, J_9, Bim, - Just adore all of you and THANK YOU.

    Special thank you to that little cutie Harley and his very special owner Cap - So kind of you to lend the little guy to help us stay on the top branch.

    Many Allheart hugs to all of you.

    Oh and yes, someone asked yesterday if we would stay in touch after we are officially non-smokers, you bet no one is getting rid of me that easy.

    Still at 0 - and still have all of you in my heart and thoughts.

    Wuv,
    Me
  • Jan 19, 2007, 09:54 AM
    Synnen
    I adore all of you too!

    I would have probably caved, had I not had all of you helping me. I can't thank you enough!

    And we are DEFINITELY staying in touch. You won't get rid of me easily either!

    CBW... you do whatever you have to. I had to put my cat down right before xmas, and I know what you are going through. Your kitty was part of your family, and you have every right to grieve and to miss him.

    I'm with Allheart on this... I can't thank all of you enough for helping! I was serious about the trip to Tokyo (or someplace) for dinner. Maybe after we've all made it a year? We could start planning and stuff to go someplace in the world that would be a trip for each of us!
  • Jan 19, 2007, 01:07 PM
    chippers
    Ohh sysn, that sounds so wonderful. To go someplace special. A year does seem like a long time but it goes fast. Think of the money you'll have for treats from not smoking.

    I think we all together make up the eternity ring. Tw imagine my surprise when I actually found a book called: THE GODDESS GUIDE. I was only going by the one I wrote up. Yes I want to stay intouch with everyone. Like allheart and you syn, You can't get rid of me that easily. Ever try to get gum off your shoe?? :p

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