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  • Apr 30, 2007, 12:45 AM
    curlybenswife
    Well I just hope they they can live with thereselves after what the said to me they aren't going anywhere near heaven that's for sure.
  • Apr 30, 2007, 12:50 AM
    Allheart
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by curlybenswife
    Well i just hope they they can live with thereselves after what the said to me they arent going anywhere near heaven thats for sure.

    I love you Laura. Bunches.
  • Apr 30, 2007, 05:12 AM
    Synnen
    Wow... I missed something major, I think.
  • Apr 30, 2007, 06:42 AM
    Synnen
    Well, I've only been here for 40 minutes, and have already managed 3 emergencies and one screw-up (I screwed up Friday, and it's messed EVERYONE up for today), so... ugh... ulcer!

    I really am going to start looking for a new job, because this is just more than I can handle.
  • Apr 30, 2007, 06:49 AM
    curlybenswife
    Nah it was all done I'm pm's by myself it was the odd ball that battered me with reddies from three accounts aren't people just lovely lol.

    How is your Monday shaping up syn?

    Oh my word syn slow down you might explode :( lots of hugs sweety xxxx
  • Apr 30, 2007, 01:13 PM
    Rina _4
    We are all in the same boat.
  • Apr 30, 2007, 10:39 PM
    Nora2
    To Curlybenswife,

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by curlybenswife
    Oh the anger ive just been given a reddy by some jumped up lil newby that thinks its a we not a him/her im not sure there all there

    Hello I work in the same office as Supercarman and 2 others that you got banned also. I saw the message you sent to supercarman about you getting "pissed off" and you calling them "newbys" etc just because they disagreed with you. Several of us at the office couldn't believe how this unfolded and how you continue to have anyone that logs on that claims to know supercarman banned.
    I guess you may get me banned too. (co-workers here are placing bets) We are all watching here and finding this hard to believe.

    You say that "im not sure there all there" then you get all their messages deleted and get them banned. Is that how you treat people who are different then you? We sure hope you treat your rodent thing better. This whole thing has became quite the event to talk about in the lunch room lately.

    Supercarman never did anything wrong. After their posts were getting deleted moments after making then someone else here suggested they reply shortly after because it was noticed that posts with comments were not deleted as frequently.

    I thought I would write something. Others were saying ideas like just write in the rank comment area because they don't get erased and another person was saying It would be funny to post the whole thing somewhere on the web as all the old messages are still stored in the computers here on the network. I said they already got booted already so its my turn. Am I getting banned now too?
  • May 1, 2007, 01:00 AM
    chippers
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Nora2
    To Curlybenswife,



    Hello I work in the same office as Supercarman and 2 others that you got banned also. I saw the message you sent to supercarman about you getting "pissed off" and you calling them "newbys" etc just because they disagreed with you. Several of us at the office couldn't believe how this unfolded and how you continue to have anyone that logs on that claims to know supercarman banned.
    I guess you may get me banned too. (co-workers here are placing bets) We are all watching here and finding this hard to believe.

    You say that "im not sure there all there" then you get all their messages deleted and get them banned. Is that how you treat people who are different then you? We sure hope you treat your rodent thing better. This whole thing has became quite the event to talk about in the lunch room lately.

    Supercarman never did anything wrong. After their posts were getting deleted moments after making then someone else here suggested they reply shortly after because it was noticed that posts with comments were not deleted as frequently.

    I thought I would write something. Others were saying ideas like just write in the rank comment area because they dont get erased and another person was saying It would be funny to post the whole thing somewhere on the web as all the old messages are still stored in the computers here on the network. I said they already got booted already so its my turn. Am I getting banned now too?


    If you and your co-workers are doing this on company computers and company time, then were taking bets on how soon you get fired. Bosses do monitor employees computer uses.
    People come here looking for advice and this type of spiteful retoric only hurts our efforts in helping them. People come here with real issues and real problems. We try to give advice without being judgemental or blame placing.
    If you're taking bets on how soon you'll get banned then maybe were wasting your time. Because we have other things to do here than worry about your little bet.
  • May 1, 2007, 01:22 AM
    curlybenswife
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Nora2
    To Curlybenswife,



    Hello I work in the same office as Supercarman and 2 others that you got banned also. I saw the message you sent to supercarman about you getting "pissed off" and you calling them "newbys" etc just because they disagreed with you. Several of us at the office couldn't believe how this unfolded and how you continue to have anyone that logs on that claims to know supercarman banned.
    I guess you may get me banned too. (co-workers here are placing bets) We are all watching here and finding this hard to believe.

    You say that "im not sure there all there" then you get all their messages deleted and get them banned. Is that how you treat people who are different then you? We sure hope you treat your rodent thing better. This whole thing has became quite the event to talk about in the lunch room lately.

    Supercarman never did anything wrong. After their posts were getting deleted moments after making then someone else here suggested they reply shortly after because it was noticed that posts with comments were not deleted as frequently.

    I thought I would write something. Others were saying ideas like just write in the rank comment area because they dont get erased and another person was saying It would be funny to post the whole thing somewhere on the web as all the old messages are still stored in the computers here on the network. I said they already got booted already so its my turn. Am I getting banned now too?

    Right firstly the ranks can be deleted if we remove the posts you rated but I've requested all be left this is making you look a lot worse than me.

    Secondly what is this problem with me?? I haven't had anyone banned I don't complain to admin I don't have to they can see with there own eyes that you are basically bullying me.

    Thirdly fill me with red sqaures they don't mean anything people only need read my reply to see it is the red comment that is wrong.
    Ive had enough of your sillyness your making me sick to the stomuch it upsets me greatly to think you have nothing better to do with your time.
  • May 1, 2007, 02:34 AM
    chippers
    Like I said, we try to help people here as well as getting help ourselves. Intentionally bullying someone is not only wrong but sets a bad example as to what this great site is about. People see one person being bullied like this.(and I take it you really don't know this kind sweet person your unleashing your spiteful wrath on, otherwise you wouldn't do it) No, we don't always agree with what's being said but that's life in the usa and uk, we can agree to disagree.
    I think you need to do a lot of growing up and effect a huge atitude change or you will get banned. Cbw might not ask for it but I garuntee the rest of us will. Were here for a purpose. Just because you didn't like the responses doesn't give you the right to attack someone for her posts. Do us all a favor and come back when you've grown up and developed more appropriate manners. If anything you owe someone I consider a great friend an apology. Not to mention the web site itself.
    We don't allow bullying on or off the computer.
  • May 2, 2007, 06:27 AM
    mariaeyre
    Hi there, I am a new member to the site but I can give you advice on this matter as I am trying to stop smoking as well. This is the first attempt in 31 years of not smoking and for the first two months not too bad. I have had to have help with the patches which I must say are brilliant - there is no way I could go cold turkey and I personally believe if you cease something your body is used to instantly then you will react more. The third month is more difficult for me, I have had a couple of cigs here and there - I admit complacency has taken a hold and I have to pull myself back from it but in the short space of time I have noticed my house smells nicer, my hair does not smell, my teeth and gums will benefit and I have not smoked 1460 fags in the time I have stopped. Some people say I have failed because I gave in a few times and had one but 1460 cigs I would have smoked is not failure to me. Get the patches they do work. One day at a time that's all you have if you can do 24 hours, start again 2moro with 24 hours. Trust me it will work and I do not plan on being a smoker again and roll on 1st July so the temptation is away from me in public places. Maria
  • May 2, 2007, 06:55 AM
    curlybenswife
    Wow thank you Maria that was really good to read and I wish you the best of luck sweety with staying smokeless lots of huge hugs to you xxxx
  • May 2, 2007, 08:53 AM
    brazygirl08
    How did everyone do with quitting? I tried to read the whole post and WOW too long! :)
  • May 2, 2007, 08:54 AM
    Synnen
    I'm still smoke free!

    4 months and 2 days!

    (someone PLEASE pass me a cigarette!)
  • May 2, 2007, 08:59 AM
    Rina _4
    More power to any one that stays smoke free...
  • May 2, 2007, 09:02 AM
    curlybenswife
    Hehehehehe I fell off the top branch a while back but now we have decided to try for little person no2 its time for me to get back up there and stay smoke free and healthy but its not going to be easy :D
  • May 2, 2007, 09:08 AM
    brazygirl08
    Well my fiancé and I smoke too... wish we could quit. We have been smoking a little over a year. I am almost 21. I just know it would be hard, we tried twice... I know your pain!
  • May 2, 2007, 09:14 AM
    Synnen
    I smoked for over 10 years. I want a cigarette every single day. Usually every hour.

    I just want to not disappoint my husband more.

    You have to find a reason important enough for you. Seriously... if you don't have a good reason not to go back, you will every time.
  • May 2, 2007, 09:19 AM
    curlybenswife
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by brazygirl08
    Well my fiance and I smoke too... wish we could quit. We have been smoking a little over a year. I am almost 21. I just know it would be hard, we tried twice.... I know your pain!!

    I started smoking when I was 21 and hell I curse myself daily for doing so what a stupid mistake to make gggrrrr.
    If you really want to do it you will but its no easy feet that's for sure.
  • May 2, 2007, 09:26 AM
    spea94
    Good Luck Lady's!

    I hope you stop that bad habit! I do not have that problem but my BF is recovering, it's a struggle but you are women you can do it!!

    My step dad chewed tobacco and he chew on licorice root... and flavored tooth picks... ( I love the tooth picks) just a thought!

    Good luck!!

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