Women like us are few and far between I guess. And it is terribly embarrassing. It makes you feel alienated. My fiancé and I used to have sex every single day. Now, once a week. Maybe. And it seems like I have to somehow trick him into it. It makes me feel horrible. I don't like sex just for the sex. I like the connection that we make when we have it. So, masturbation is really not an option. It just makes me feel worse and more lonely.
I really have no advice to offer. I just want you to know that you are not alone. I am 18 and my fiancé is 21, so we really shouldn't be in this rut either. It just makes me feel very unwanted and un-sexy. And I really am not a terribly unattractive girl either. I am an appropriate weight for my height, hygenic, and take care of myself. So really, I don't think that it is us. That is one thing that I think is important to remember. There is nothing wrong with you for wanting sex.