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  • Apr 27, 2007, 09:55 AM
    troublegirl
    Helppp.its killing me
    Am feeling so sad because of what I did--once my parents scolded me very badly so to hurt them back I started pretending that I have gone mad,I started dancing and talking to myself.They thought that I have gone mad in real and they took me to a doctor for that as I wanted them to think that I have gone mad.later I told them the truth that I was just acting like mad but am fine.Now am feeling really bad about this.I feel like I have done a weird thing which no one has done.I feel like am the only one who has acted like mad.I feel very left out and alone.I feel so sick.am hating myself because of this.it will be great to know that its not just me who acted like mad.but am feeling sick.
  • Apr 27, 2007, 10:09 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Hevens no, teens often do so many stupid things, and while they took you to this doctor, you did this for a reason, and needed to get help because of the reaon you did it, and I am hope they are still working with you.

    I could give you a list of stupid thing I did and if you want a book, I could tell you what my 5 boys havve done. And honestly acting "mad" is not near as bad as some kids do, often they go out and do criminal things, or harmful things to therself,

    The main thing is if you are still feeling wrong that you get with your parents or a school couselor, or someone you trust and talk about how you feel
  • Apr 27, 2007, 10:19 AM
    iscorpio
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by troublegirl
    once i acted like mad to hurt my parents.i started dancing and talking to myself.they thought that i have gone mad in real and took me to a doctor.later i told them that i was just acting.now am feeling so depressed about this whole thing.i feel like am the only one who has done such stupid thing and no one in this world has done this.i feel so left out and alone.i feel no one has done this..am feeling so down. i wish that atleast sumone has done this.am the only stupid gal

    Doctors can tell that you were acting and this was probably done to stop you from behaving this way, you have obviously learnt a hard lesson by this, you don't know if someone else has done this because like you they are probably not proud of themselves, don't feel depressed, put it down to experience and try to make it up to your parents for putting them through it, the best thing when bad things happen is to know that it is in the past, you can move forward and just learn through experiences good and bad that is what life is all about and each thing we go through should make us a better person and more able to cope with life, so chin up, enjoy your life, find yourself a hobby that you can really get involved in, I am sure your parents have forgiven you, so now you must forgive yourself. Take care, love and peace anne x
  • Apr 29, 2007, 12:36 PM
    bonanza123
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by troublegirl
    am feeling so sad because of what i did--once my parents scolded me very badly so to hurt them back i started pretending that i have gone mad,i started dancing and talking to myself.They thought that i have gone mad in real and they took me to a doctor for that as i wanted them to think that i have gone mad.later i told them the truth that i was just acting like mad but am fine.Now am feeling really bad about this.i feel like i have done a wierd thing which no one has done.i feel like am the only one who has acted like mad.i feel very left out and alone.i feel so sick.am hating myself because of this.it will be great to know that its not just me who acted like mad.but am feeling sick.

    Your parents obviously care about you, because they talked to a doctor. Don't worry about anything. The only cure for your pain will be time... so just wait a little while.
  • May 1, 2007, 07:30 AM
    shorty_got_skills
    Don't feel bad about it!
    Teenagers live to lie to their parents. It's a rebel thing. As long as you really didn't go mad and as long as you didn't hurt anyone in the process then its all good girl!
  • Jun 15, 2007, 10:54 PM
    eljay1103
    Yeah... Atleast you've recgonized that your actions were probably just out of being spitefall for whatever reason... Now there's so many teens that live in denial some don't believe the things they do to their parents are wrong... atleast you can look at yourself and say "I KNOW I WAS WRONG" You could have done a lot worse than just acted like you were mad wich is good for you that you didn't take it any further... you'll be all right
  • Jul 9, 2007, 08:34 PM
    ally123
    Tell them you were just screwin around
  • Nov 29, 2010, 06:30 PM
    looking4answer_
    I am not going to lie that was a horrible thing what you did. Things like it can really hurt someone now that they know the truth they can see that you're a little messed up they do care about youo enough to take you to a docter I recommend being really nice to them!

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